I never thought it could be. I mean, how could it be? But this girl makes me feel real special and I think she is real nice as a person aswell. It is not normal to feel like this over someone I don't even know is it? Oh well, i'll trust my instincts!!! She seems real cool!!!
2007-07-16 20:17:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's totally possible to fall for someone online. Believe me I know. I've been with my fiance for 3 years now and even though we are 6,000+ miles apart we've made it work. It's hard work but totally possible.
My suggestion to you is that I wouldn't put all my hopes up until you actually meet the person. Face to face contact is so important, although you my find you are fond of her right now I suggest meeting her. You want know to find out if you can be in the same room with each other and still have great conversations before you make any decisions about the relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-07-18 07:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she make you feel special? I guess it's possible, nothing, to me, is impossible. But beware. Someone I knew a few years ago communicated back and forth with a gal from the Phillipines and all she was interested in was money. And like a fool, he kept sending her money with her promising she'd come to the states (which I guess is no easy task) to see him.Nothing but heartbreak became of this for him. Anyhow, here's hoping she is a she and not a he or some kind of weirdo and a person needs to be very careful these days. I don't see any harm in sending e-mails to each other and snail mail. As far as meeting her, who knows, maybe someday. You could ask for pics but that doesn't mean a thing as they could be pics of anyone.
2007-07-17 07:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Gracie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband playing Video games over the internet! So anything is possible! we were Thousands of miles apart and well he's here with me now finally!! :-) Been dating 2 years and married for 2 months so far!
Just because others have had bad experiances doesn't mean everyone will! But also just becuase mine was good doesn't mean yours will be easier! IM just letting you know its possible!! Good Luck
2007-07-17 10:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hie Shaine. Well to me it is better for you to follow your heart, but for you to fall in love it is a normal thing. Well if you have fall in love with this particular girl, then it is better for you to express your feelings towards her and tell her how you are feeling, because there is no point of you to just keep it in your heart and at last you will be facing depression, so it is better for you to tell her on how you feel. If you are too shy, then it is better for you to go and get her e-mail and send her an e-mail or try to send her an e-love card and from there you can express your card towards her and for sure she will reply back but it is better for you to give her time to reply back to you and when she has reply then it is better for you to ask her out and from there each of you'll can get to know each other more deeper and better. Try this and hope it might help you................................
ALL THE BEST...................................
2007-07-18 15:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know sometimes we feel like that...You like her...I know,but she's just as a good friend for you not a love,I mean TRUE LOVE.
I don't want to advise you,I know how do you feel...it usually happen for young girls who are so affectionate,and unfortunately I WAS one of them!I was fond of him,but...
I'm just 16,not experienced to choose good 'n' bad...but I am sure if you see her and be with her for a few time,you can find out she is not your love.
2007-07-17 03:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Provirus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beware my friend. This "girl" that you've fallen in love with on the net could be a guy in disguised as you can't see that "girl" unless there's a web cam. I have friends, be it boys / girls, that had been cheated during the net romance that they though they had.
Remember dude. Do not let emotions run over your head. That will be the most painful downfall if it happens.
Cheers :)
2007-07-17 04:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Larry L - Hi Everyone :D 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I thought I had fallen for an internet guy...then he wanted to go back to his baby's mama. THEN I found out that his other (new) internet friends were PRE OPERATIVE TRANSEXUALS...guys who dress as girls until they can become a girl...to me that's sick in the guy I thought I loved...I couldn't believe he would make all these friends who were mixed up guys...Was he mixed up too?...Probably. It sickened me.
Maybe you will have better luck.
2007-07-17 03:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure it is. generally, the less u know about someone, the more likely u are to complete it with ur own ideas of "the perfect girl" & "fall for them". especially if u never met them in person. who knows, if u meet, it may turn out to be wonderful 4 both of u. good luck :)
2007-07-17 03:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is possible but I wouldn't recommend it. I've had too many friends get burnt by Internet relationships.
2007-07-18 17:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by chewydewok 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History is replete with famous love affairs from far away being carried out by letters. Some times over many years with the parties involved never actually spending time together.
The modern age of the computer and high speed communication essentially for free has allowed us to fulfill an old prediction about people running to and fro and knowledge being increased. And now countless millions correspond with people they will never meet. Look at us right now here.
I am in a few penpal sites. I have about ten active writers with me I have never met. Some we have been emailing each other for years. It allows us to say things we might not had ever gotten the opportunity to say or ask in the past.
I have one young Japanese woman. I have never seen her picture. I rewrite her messages (as I do with several net friends) and send them back so she can learn English writing. Over time we have gotten fond of each other. It is obvious that she has an "image" of me in her head.
This last year I see that she has fallen in love with, "my Ronnie-san". Ours is not a sexual online romp. It is deeply about getting to share our lives and experiences. And testing out thoughts with another from afar.
She is as is common to Japanese woman, shy. Today at the close of her email she added this brief addition. "I will try to obtain photographs". I believe the "try" means she will try to have the courage to send pictures of herself to me.
So, to answer your question I ask back, define love. I know there is a young girl in Japan who loves me. And, I love her very much also.
2007-07-17 06:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by charles43110 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋