Hi my friend has just met this guy who is 14 yrs younger than herself! She says he is more of a man than any man she has met and considers her feelings and they have bonded well. My friend only looks about 26 and he looks about 21 lol. I think we have moved on on in society and its not a big deal, whats ur thoughts?
2007-07-16 20:11:10 · 35 answers · asked by Lady Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that's fine, in so far as long as i'll be able (and find it socially acceptable) to bag me a perky 19yr old when i'm 33.
2007-07-16 20:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
What a shame all I could do is give a bunch of bad rating on answers, if this question was the other way around it would be completely accepted by most, one answer said as long is its not my son, I wonder if she knows how trashy most girls are at a young age these days ???? I think its totally fine ! ! after this ? I feel like a fossil, I'm 40 and would hate to think I need to look for seniors to date because I wasn't born a male, If your question was man 33 just hooked up with 19 yr old, you would have tons of stars and praise from every male that seen the question until you picked a best answer. Please tell your friend for me enjoy the energy and happiness untill his very imature butt leaves, we all no men are best picked old they mature very slow. One more thing 40 and getting ready to help raise a grandchild I would not do it, but If I met a 20 year old that was happy with me I would go for it , not almost dead at my age much less 33 , Love your ?
2007-07-16 22:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by jdydewing 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I assume she is paying. A woman of 33 is more financially stable than a 19 year old boy.
I think this is lust, plain and simple. The lady should find someone her age, or at least not someone so young. She is corrupting him.
The boy is probably in it for the fun. Sometimes, it is nice to experiment and learn new tricks in the process.
Worse, it is said that women mature faster. At some point then, she will look like she is older than his mom.
2007-07-16 20:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If they are both happy and enjoying the time they spend together then what's the harm, personally I think older women and younger men are the perfect match, one has the experience and the other has the energy!!
2007-07-16 20:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My hubby and i are 16 years apart. He is the older one though. Age shouldn't matter unless they are like 40 years apart even 30! And as long as it's not a teacher student thing then go for it your both adults.
2007-07-16 20:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Last time I checked being over 18 means you're and adult.
So in this instance id say it's fine, what's the problem?
People are too preoccupied with age gaps these days.
2007-07-16 20:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow-Taster 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, as long as the guy isn't a minor, I think it's at least legal!
Haha, love is strange and it's not limited to age, sexuality, wealth, status, etc.
If they bond and truly appreciate each other, then I think it's fine for them to date.
Who are we to stop two people who sincerely care about each other?
2007-07-16 20:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Demi and Ashton seem to make it work.
If it was against the rules then Cher would never be in a relationship.
Its different horses for different courses.
2007-07-16 20:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Melly 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
After Demi and Ashton its not that big deal anymore. I guess it depends on where they live. and if their family is supportive. I find that family and friends can make a difference with a successful relationship.
2007-07-16 20:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sweeney 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think that's fine as long as it they are happy and of course both partners are of legal age 18.
2007-07-16 20:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetbulbs 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋