OK after work on saturday I went to a restaurant, one of my regulars and just sat down. They had seated me in the loner corner, I was by myself. I made some out loud comment, like my usual self and a guy sitting by himself said I could join him if I liked. I accepted and we spent therest of our dinner just chillin and talking. He was moving and couldn't get his surround sound to work and knowing now that I was a DJ, I assume thats why he asked my help. I followed him to his appartment in my car and tried to help. It was hopeless. We just hung out and talk. We played chess and just hung. Someone from his home town lived beneth his new apartment and she came up to say hey and invite us down (she's engaged and not a factor is this problem). He told me he was really a keep to himself kinda guy. It never seemed like he was lying and he made no moves on me. He is six year older than I and thus has been around a lto more. He is different, but I'm not sure what to think... Help!
2007-07-16 20:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by NoName 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i can say is...if u feel it is right, then go for it...i wasnt going to give my current boyfriend (fiance) a chance, but it turned out to be the best decision i EVER made...good luck :)
2007-07-16 20:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Calilv0123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is really trying to make a move on you. And if he is, he's probably doing it pretty well and giving you time. If he wants a go with you, just let him. Otherwise, just hang out as friends like you do now.
Now if you want to be with him, that's another story. But that's not the vibe I'm getting from your question statement.
2007-07-17 03:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I do have to agree with Janica.
You went to a complete stranger's house.
I'm not sure if you know him well enough to figure out his intentions.
My advice is take it slow and to just see if it's more of a friendship or do your feelings still linger?
You may be attracted to him but it may not be beneficial for you.
Anyway, I don't know the guy myself, but just keep talking to him if you're interested.
And who knows what will happen!
2007-07-17 03:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, stay friends, best resolution, the more you know about the guy the less chance you would be hurt, try not to rush when you decide on a relationship, take a little time, talk more, discover the true friend or man inside, if he's clean and normal, give him a chance to be more intimate or closer, don't give it all out, know him better to proceed.
2007-07-17 03:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by harmonicaasd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a decent guy to date. Sure why not? He may just be the independent type though that doesn't give or expect a lot of attention.
2007-07-17 03:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a chance. You might like him more when you two are together and not just hangin out. I mean whats the worst that can happen? You break up!
2007-07-17 03:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by CODENAME: Zoolander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went home with a complete stranger who could have murdered you and now you want permission from total strangers on the internet to date him? Grow up!
2007-07-17 03:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck a good guy (hopefully, not no sicko or deep down crazy cereal killer) but i guess he likes u a lot might even want to go out with you, but from the sound of it he is looking for some 1 else to hang out with b cuz it seems he is lonely. BUT PLEASE TELL AT LEAST 3 OF UR FRIENDS WHO THIS GUY IS, WAT HE LOOKS LIKE, EVERYTHING. b cuz u never know it could b staged to get in ur pants!!! not to freak you out but have a BUFF guy friend meet him and say he is ur close friend, so that way he will b scared to FU@# with you.
i will pray for the best, and god bless.
:)
2007-07-17 03:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by dojo boys* A /\/\ecH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy reminds me of me, and if i know me-he wont make a move for a while. your best bet is to keep him around, guys like me are keepers. we're rare.
2007-07-17 03:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by damn onion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋