ok so all my friends have bf's except for me and all they talk about is their boy friends and their dates i told them i feel sad cause i don't have a bf but they still only talk about it so what do i do and please say something better then get a bf
2007-07-16 20:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get new friends.
2007-07-16 20:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell you to get a boyfriend ... first that implies that getting a boyfriend is as easy as picking out a new purse or something ... and second you shouldn't "just get a boyfriend" you should wait til you find someone you like and who will be good to you.
There are a few things that you CAN do though. If your friends talking about having a boyfriend really bothers, you can spend less time with them (hang out with others who don't have boyfriends ... or don't talk about it as much ...) They may realize that they are isolating you and try to talk less about their dates and stuff ... or maybe not (when you have a boyfriend, I am sure you will want to share with others about your dates, its natural)
But better than that, because that can cause a split in your friendships, you can learn to be comfortable with yourself as you are. You are single right now, and that is ok. You should be able to be happy with yourself without a boyfriend and with a boyfriend. When you are ok with your being single, perhaps your friends talking about their dates won't bother you as much. You should realize that you are perfectly ok how you are now, you don't need a boyfriend to fit in or to be happy (but when you are ready, it is exciting to date) and your friends, I don't think, are not trying to be mean, they are just excited about their experiences.
I hope you find a solution to your problem and that things work out for you, Good Luck.
2007-07-17 03:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them that when they talk about their boyfriends too much that it hurts you. so ask if they could tune it down a bit. if they dont then find some new friends that would be a little more different than that. and its ok not to hav a boyfriend! ive only had one once upon a time. now im single and seeing couples everywhere. but what helps is to find something healthy that would keep ur mind busy. hope i helped :)
2007-07-17 03:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by nerdy_azn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer i say get new friends they sounds very empty headed, as life is way more than just boys! boys are mean and stinky but yes they are good for something but geeze get your life started first before getting tangled in hormones and boys. Girls that talk about their boys all the time are obviously trying to hide that they are actually VERY boring people!
2007-07-17 03:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Pickle123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend. If that's all they can talk about is their boyfriends, then maybe their owns lives are pretty boring. It's natural for them to talk about them, but I wouldnt hang out with them if they taunt you or make fun of you for not having one. It's just a boyfriend. They come and go, no big deal. Your time will come. =)
2007-07-17 03:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Er...
Well, you can either... get a boyfriend. Or, plainly put it as you haven't found the right person yet.
Don't feel so bad, unless they're 21+ years old, it probably won't last.
2007-07-17 03:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to hang with a new group
2007-07-17 03:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by madtsunami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. go hang out with other friends who arent only obsessed with themselves and their boyfriends. hopefully they'll realize that they're missing a great friend.
2007-07-17 03:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by lillollipop1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋