I know a girl named Ashlee and she lives with her 26 year old brother, she is 15 and he has practicley raised her. They had abusive parents. He has a fantastic education. He is wealthy and has a boyfriend named Davis,22 and they take care of her. She calls him daddy and is it normal that she has a pacifier and sleeps with him because she gets scared. She has no mental problems. She is soooooooooo dependent of Joel. It is kind of cute, but what do you think. She has him carry her around the house to fall asleep, she drinks out of a sippy cup because she might spill, says joel. Is this odd?
2007-07-16 20:07:22 · 14 answers · asked by Lynnette D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea that's weird, but it's not unheard of. her parents were abusive, they stole her childhood, so she's taking it back now.
2007-07-16 20:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by samuel_shadows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this some sort of joke? Or are you serious?
For a girl of 15 to be carried until she sleeps, drinks out of sippy cups, still uses a pacifier, and sleeps with her brother, and calls him Dad. Hell there's RED FLAGS everywhere. The abuse didn't stop with the parents by the sound of it.
This girl needs help. She does have mental problems ( a regressive disorder), and she is far too dependent on her brother. If no one helps her through this she will be scarred for life.
She needs to see that there is a world beyond the childhood, which she never had, but insists on clinging to.
2007-07-17 03:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works for her, then I guess it is okay. It sounds a little odd for a 15 year old to be drinking out a sippy cup, sleeps with her 26 year old brother, and has a pacifier, but maybe it is because of the parnoidness of the abusing. May she can't get over it.
2007-07-17 03:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is really 15..... then that is very odd. I know one year olds who can drink out of cups w/out spilling. Anyways the way she is acting will probably cause problems late in life, when she has to go to college and what not.
2007-07-17 03:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont mind shes with her bro but a pacifier and sippy cup??? she is a 15 year old woman, not a baby...but it mite have to do with the fact her parents were abusive but still its kinda odd
2007-07-17 03:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Baba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strange... yeah i guess, but i mean not that messed up, you should come down to the South. There are much weirder brother/sister relationships down here. The kind of freaky stuff you would see on Jerry Springer.
2007-07-17 03:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by drglizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but you say yourself that her brother replaced her parents...he means everything to her...it is so normal...human beings want protection all the time...for her brother mean protection...
the weir thing is that you are not sure about what to do with that girl...I think you are into her or something of that sort...but you are not sure if you will sleep with her and her brother in the same bed...(that would sure be weird)
2007-07-17 03:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by josh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, all totally normal behaviour.
You must REALLY BE BORED to think this up and post it, you actually have some people buying into it as real,lol
2007-07-17 03:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jay45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i don't find this cute at all!! Are u sure she doesn't have any mental problems?? Doesn't she go to college? :S Could be that her homo bro and his partner are just using her, i don't know....this is real queer. Did you ever talk to her about her behavior? Well this sure freaked me out...... you didn't MAKE THIS UP DID YOU??
2007-07-17 03:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao.
That's cute. Everyone has weird habits just as long as she doesn't wear diapers or cries at school when her brother drops her off, I think she's fine.
2007-07-17 03:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋