my grandma just died. it doesn't seem real. what is death?? how do i stop myself from crying myself to sleep almost every night??
2007-07-16 19:07:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
awwww...Girly i know what pain u are feeling i went though the same pain with my uncle tom! But What some people have said just remember shes in a better place where shes not in pain or sick ! she is happy and she is with god! Dont worry just stay strong thats what i have to the just pray to god and tell him how ur feeling and ur grandma will hear u to u may not belive that but its true! if u ever need anyone to talk to im always here for ya! Because i know what ur going through!
God Bless hope i helped some!!
Brittany
2007-07-18 20:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by angelbrat18_1989_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly death is a natural part of life. Sooner or later the body fails. My condolences on the loss of your grandma. I believe you do need to cry and mourn for a while to get all the sadness out of your system. Remember that she will live on in the momories of you, the rest of your family and all her friends.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
2007-07-17 03:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does any animal die?
It is because our bodies have filled their course in life, and through physical means God has taken them from us.
Crying is good! Being sad is good! Let the mourning happen it is healthy. You don't want to stop trust me. Just don't let it go on too long. You have to accept it and continue eventually, but until then crying helps. :)
I feel sorry for you, and I hope things get better. You and your grandmother will be in my prayers.
IM or Email me if you need any more help.
2007-07-17 02:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, we die as we were not born to live on earth forever.
If no one died, the world would be much more over-populated than it already is.
I feel for you with your loss, I lost 3 grandparents in a row between the age of 14 and 16. I watched my Grandmother pass away.
2007-07-17 02:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for me I can say everyone must pass away, I dont think of death like most do, I trust in the bible, and if you do as well, death is not forever, it says in so many words, they rest and waint for Christ to return, all that are dead, will raise up and live again,, so we all die but live later, when Christ returns, this is what I understand to be true, you should cry alittle,, you loved her so thats ok,, but remember its not forever,, youll see her again.. she's only at rest for now..
2007-07-17 03:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grief comes out of your love for her. It is not a pleasant time or emotion to experience. As the time passes you will find that the grief passes into different phases, effecting you differently in each phase.
To help yourself through this time, consider writing a journal or a special memories book as a celebration of who she is.
Do talk with a friend or counselor or minister about your thoughts or feelings. To help you to stay healthy during this time, do your best to eat, sleep and exercise every day.
Time, thought and emotion will move you toward healilng.
Remember the best of your grandma.
With time your tears will fade.
2007-07-17 02:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mourning is good on the contrary. If you bottle it up to long it will make you sick in the head and kill your emotions. I know I did it in middle school and it took me a loooong time to get back to normal.
2007-07-17 02:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not morune the one who have passed, as their in a better place. Rejoice in the life that they did have.
2007-07-17 02:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by Chris is the name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was old, hon, she had to croak sooner or later.
2007-07-17 02:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋