2007-07-16 18:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
A GOOD SPANKING IS BEST FOR UNRULY RATS!
I think it is funny how all the soft hearted ppl say save the kids!
Yeah they all say my kid is adhd that is the reason no its called unruly rat! and what do you do with rats!
2007-07-16 19:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Injun 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
With kids, consistency is the key. Expectations and consequences should be very clearly communicated and logical. If you say you are going to do something, then make sure you do it. If you don't follow through, the child will learn that you don't mean what you say. When discipline is enforced with love and logic (not screaming and emotions), kids will respond. More than anything, kids need our guidance and example to become self-disciplined.
2007-07-16 19:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine have two self-disciplined parents. They see us study and work and they reap the rewards. Of course, personality plays a part as well- the oldest has had to work harder to learn self-discipline but by experiencing the material benefits of our self-discipline she has gained ambition and drive.
How would hitting instill self-discipline? Wouldn't it instill distrust and insecurity, which would lead to approval seeking behaviors elsewhere, and then surely to trouble??
2007-07-16 19:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being strict and setting boundaries.Even the smallest things make a difference.I'm in Trinidad,and I've seen how American kids talk to their parents.If that was me talking to my mother,I'd get slapped silly..
seems to me that kids have no respect for their parents,for any authority whatsoever.Over here,its different,we aren't goodytwoshoes,but we don't scream at our parents. -_-.
I think just being stern on them,from how much times they watch tele,to just how they speak and behave and their manners.You don't have to hit your kid,but don't let that think that you're not capable of doing so,because if you do,they'l eventually learn that,and walk all over you.If you show any weakness,they'l learn it and pounce on it.
Seriously.My newphew and Aunt go through this,and she doesn't see it.He's 7 and he gets into trouble and blames it on his baby bro.Now he knows his mom would never get angry of hit at his baby bro.This is so simple,but this is what happened while I was at their house.
Positive energy is important when you set rules,but you've gota be tough on them when they do something wrong,and let them know you mean business.
2007-07-16 19:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by divine_wind 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hitting your child i think is really dumb because your suppose to be there for them and support them on whatever they do ... And if they do anything wrong then you should sit by them and explain to then not to do again .... HOPE this helps
2007-07-16 18:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I raised my son to respect his-self and that the actions he takes in life are his responsibility good or bad.
2007-07-17 05:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lead by example.
2007-07-16 19:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it helps if you seldomly raise your voice at him/her. if you scream at them everyday they are used to the sound. if you dont it almost makes them jump when you raise your voice even the slightest.
2007-07-16 18:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Eryc 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
how about an electric collar
2007-07-16 20:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll11000099874 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋