im depressed around my family i just cant take it i only now have funs with my freind wich is about 5 of them maybe 6 idk what to do i should be happy my birthday is this month i dont know what to do my parents neglect me and treat me like im not there, i dont believe i would ever be the same with them agian the most i can do now is ask for stuff, i rather not talk to them and i rather mope around, Als o my sister makes me the most sad she can break lose any of my stuff and lie to my face about it, it makes me so pissed i rather just cry and cut like the little kid i am
2007-07-16 17:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
No, please get off the Internet, and tell your parents you need therapy, or just to talk to them seriously. Get some help.
I'm sorry about how things are going, and it may feel like nothing is in your control, but choosing to get help from someone who can help you regain control is something you can decide!
Find something you enjoy, and can do all by yourself, and OWN it! Be in control!!
Good luck!!!!
2007-07-16 18:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Wishful Writer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, You'll be OK. :) The best thing to do is stay close to your friends talk with your Friends as much as you can about it and just do things which you enjoy with people you like..... If you think having a chat to your parents would help that situation and maybe letting them know a bit more in depth about how you feel... If that fails then maybe you could look at seeking some help from someone in the community like a Doctor or counsellor or someone at school etc etc, I'm not sure which country your in but i know most communities have places where you can go to have a talk with someone in the social work sector and this can usually help quite alot - it always pays to talk and let people know how you are feeling.
Stay thinking positive and get some professional help and you will be fine in time........
2007-07-17 01:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ttrriissttiin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a word, NO. Cutting is a faulty coping mechanism.
Talk to a teacher, a minister or a family member outside your immediate family - someone you feel confident you can trust.
Having a birthday has nothing to do with being happy, and saying "I should be happy" will only add guilt to whatever else you're already feeling to bring you down.
2007-07-17 01:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by mrscjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling this question is insincere, which would really annoy me.
But, in the case that it's not....sorry that I'm not taking this question seriously. It's rather ridiculous. Even if you're telling the truth it's ridiculous, because there's probably more behind what you're saying. Whatever the case, you know the answer. Try taking a good look at yourself and see what's really going on in your brain.
2007-07-17 06:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even think about doing something like that....you're not the only one with familiy problems, and i think the only reason you want to cut urself is bcz u want attention... i had a thought of suicide, but only to imagine and see how my parents would feel guilty for not treating me better (although i am kind of a spoiled brat)
at least ur sister didn't call u a nobody...and ur mom didn't call u useless.....so stop feeling sorry for urself, get a job (at least try) and also try to get along with ur familiy...they are the only thing that will stand by u no matter what..
2007-07-17 01:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by lachar1991 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you need to start doing positive things. Surround yourself with friends and people that make you feel better. Don't use drugs as an escape route either, even if you forget where you are you could just start making more problems for yourself. Try to join activities and do things that are positive and can help you forget.
2007-07-17 01:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tomorrow you need to look for a doc and if you feel like cutting you need to get to the emergency room tonight. I used to cut its not a solution only a setback. Your family sounds like crap no offense so its time for you to get outside help. There is no shame in that either. What I did to find my doc was to go to my local hospital and we had a psych urgent care part where I was able to talk to a psychiatrist which eventually referred me to the doc I have now who has really helped me. The cutting isnt worth it please ask for the help.
2007-07-17 01:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH MY GOD.
please dont cut urself
i am 15, and i hate my dad, but i love my friends
learn to trust your friends, they will always be there for u.
even when times get really hard, cutting is like so bad for u and all it does is make things worse. find something better to do, i play softball to let out my feelings
spend tons of time with your friends
then u can get away from your family =]
2007-07-17 01:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by shanaynay j 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I laugh, mainly because I have no pity for the people that cut themselves... hear me out...
they complain about doing it, yet they still do it... they have no will power... they think their lives are so miserable, yet they fail to see other countries, and people that dont get to eat, or dont have a soft bed to sleep in, hell, they dont even have razor blades...
The cutters complain later on in life about scars... and how to remove them...
you cant.. and they failed to see this before hand...
think before you leap..
and they cant take the consequences of their actions...
2007-07-17 01:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i already do it and im 15 too
iif it makes u feel better like it does me then go for it
just dont hit the wrong spot u could die if its deep enough
im not gonna tell u to stop b/c its not my place to and i do it myself...so yea
good luck w/ ur family i hate mine btw too
2007-07-17 01:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋