Some of my family members such as my sister don't understand why, they just see things as well if it happens it happens and they offer no support other than negative advice that doesn't help me or the kids much in our situation. My sister and her husband have gone through a lot of cheating issues and they seem to be a happy family with their newborn baby and me who has been nothing but faithful to my husband and going through a divorce and I find no one better than God to help me through this terrible time in my life. Why can't people understand this?
2007-07-16 15:34:23 · 9 answers · asked by beba 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have trying to change things around in my life and do whats best for myself and my children, and am trying to better myself so that if my husband opens his mind and his heart and wants to work on our marriage I will be able to forgive and make it stronger.
2007-07-16 15:44:38 · update #1
Have you ever heard the saying that "the grass always looks greener on the other side".
Right now you are going through a time that is hurtful and filled with heartache.
Your looking at them and thinking that they are so happy it is all an act too. The misery you are dealing with now, she is living in.
At least you made a choice to not deal with the hurt and the pain. She is living in it with no relief, but your relief will come.
You could look at it as a bad thing that you are in the church/God,but there are people that are going through a divorce and they have no one.
I am not going to make light of your struggle but one day really soon you will look back at this and be able to say I am thankful for that door that close because it lead me to a New and opened door.
You will then realize how Good God's help is and was than any other man/woman on this earth.
Hold on and be strong you are heading in the right direction.
I'm routing for you!!!!!Best wishes!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-16 15:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ecala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that (even worked for the Rcc for 8 years) God's still with me and I keep the church at as great a distance as possible now, knowing what I know, but that's another and a long long story.
CAN depend on the church though, keep in mind that evil influence exudes from POWER so the HIGHER up the contacts these people have the greater the distance you should keep from them, truelly they will destroy you if they can, if you escape you will know and understand Jezus so much better but what I mean is be sure the "church" part of your solution isn't preventing God from working in you and you can start working with him without it costing so much pain.
LOVE and STRENGTH to you my friend,
A.
2007-07-17 06:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by angela m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing worse then having to relate to shallow people on a daily basis. You are searching for truth. No better place then through God. Ask for guidance, wisdom and your true purpose in life and slowly you will get your answers. Don't let anybody hold you back from that because you have a full life waiting for you. Good Luck.
2007-07-16 22:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by skycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you are going through a divorce. Its just another sign of the times. Is there no reconciliation to your husband?
If not, then stay single.
2007-07-16 22:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by witnessnbr1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can't, then forget them. Do what makes you feel good, honey. I've frequently felt very alone in my life and Jesus is where I always go. With him, I'm never alone (there's nothing more awful then the feeling that nobody cares).
peace be with you. I'm sorry for your troubles. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.
2007-07-16 22:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be in church support group who can help you and are concerned about your welfare. Usually a cell group would be responsible for this. Sometimes, family members are harsh and direct, and you'll probably find more comfort from friends.
2007-07-16 22:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by JasonLee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They allow themselves to be governed by the satan. Satan is always taking the chance tempting people not to believe in God and to do bad things.
jtm
2007-07-16 22:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know. I don't think we humans, Christians especailly, ever will. God knows.
2007-07-16 22:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by fuzz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, life can suck at times.
2007-07-16 22:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Prof Fruitcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋