Am I the only one that has ever felt...?

Question

like no one cared and they were alone all the time??? I feel like I can't trust anyone and I can't let anyone in. I can't talk to anyone cuz I always feel that I waste everyone's time, but I just need to know if I am the only one that has ever felt like this.

Answer 1

Everyone feels like that at some point in there life. Some people feel that way more than others. I hate that feeling more than anything in the world. But you have to believe that you are not alone. I do not know you but I care. I care because I would not wish anyone to feel this way. I am sure someone cares about you and if you really think you would agree.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, you are not the only person to go through this. I did and it has taken me a while to recover from it. I have the "let someone in" problem with my husband but only in one area in my life. But, just the same it is important. You can't possibly waste peoples time. What has help me is my counselor. It is a self esteem issue and asoon as you accept that it is there, you can move forward and try to change it. It sounds easier then it is but I assure you that once you reach the goals you set for yourself, you will feel on top of the world.

Answer 3

No, you're not the only one. If you want to keep feeling this way, then forget this message. Otherwise my message is: get help. You need a psychiatrist and a therapist. Between the two they have the best chance of being able to get you feeling like yourself as soon as possible. It's easy--lots of people get better very quickly. But they can't help you don't ask.

Debbie

Answer 4

everyone feels like that at one time or another.. most people live in a self-centered life, fixated on themselves... but we all create these barriers in our head which keep us from talking with others.. try to raise your awareness of when you're jumping to conclusions and putting thoughts in other's heads, take care of yourself and maybe look in to counseling if this doens't resolve itself soon.. you don't have to feel this way your whole life, and it's ok to ask for help or be a burden on others.. what you think is wasting other people's time is actually what can build very strong bonds with people..

Answer 5

A lot of people feel the same way you do. It's called depression. Maybe try talking to a counselor who'll help you out with the problems your having? I hope you feel better soon. People do love and care for you.

Take care and feel better.

-Kari

Answer 6

There is an insult unto death and depression s all about friends and family. You will be learning why you were left behind as you learn the second vocabulary and the rules for greeting and social interface. Good luck .Try to avoid the winner-players and get one friend who is like you are.

Answer 7

All the time. I suffer from depression and I talk to a therapist and I don't know how to let her in. It's a habit to put of my walls and I can't get passed what is hurting me.

Answer 8

You aren't talking to the right people. Seriously, you need professional help. Asking questions on here won't resolve your issues. It's great you are reaching out, it really is, but relying on people here, not professionals can cause more harm than good.

Answer 9

i actually feel like this all the time. and like at school and everything i barely talk to anyone because im afraid that people will think im just wasting theyre time or theyll think im annoying or something.

Answer 10

belive me your'e not alone, i've been around quite awhile and these feelings will come and go just try to surround yourself with good friends that make you happy.