well u see i m with my bf for 2 yrs 4mths +. recently my bf gets moody and angry with me very fast. its just not like him! he keeps saying because he is tired as he works and stuffs. i do understand. but sometimes i call him and he sounds like irritated. so i try not to call him so often so that he can do his own stuffs. but with his friends he looks okay unoe. not being quiet or anything. ystday i rubbed his thing alot and kissed and he enjoyed it. while doing these kinda things he is okay. but he doesnt cuddle me once in a while like how he used to. he is not cheating on me or anything. i know. so pls do not tell me he loves another girl or he loves me for my body. i would like to know, what can i do to improve my relationship? is there anything i can do to make him feel less tired or is there anything i shouldnt do, because it will make him feel annoyed. i m studying right now but i do find time for him. i wrote him letters and it has been 4 days and he didnt read em yet
2007-07-16 14:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if you have done something to upset him. Or if he heard something about you that was bad. If not, let him know your feelings are getting hurt Because of how he is treating you. But you will never know if you dont ask. Sounds like he needs more space or to break up. You have dated for a long time. Sometimes people change. Sorry. I would stop calling as much and NO writing letters. Let him miss you, and see what he does. You deserve to be treated better.
2007-07-16 15:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by T I 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy with a bad past with girlfriends, the situation you described is how I acted when I wanted out of a relationship. If he is not cheating now, he may soon. Every guy knows this act is a sure break-up. Tell him how you are feeling and if he blows it off then the relationship is over. You need to move on. If he listens and sympathizes then give him space to work things out. He sounds like you are being used for his gratification.
2007-07-16 22:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together for a long time, and sometimes a little bit of the spark goes away. It doesn't mean he's falling out of love with you or anything. JUst let him know that you love him, and let him know how you feel. Communication is key. Don't be afraid to say the things you need to say.
2007-07-16 22:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity Breeds Contempt. Take An Interest In Something He Likes.. But Don't Try To Push Into His Life.
Good Luck!
2007-07-16 22:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my girl 5 years and I feel the same way. I come home to her every night after work. I go to bed with her every night get up with her every morning but I barely even talk to her I am now realizing it and yet I keep on staying on the pc. I really should get off and go chill with her on the couch. I do feel bad about it but yet I don't do anything about it. Ok now I am going to hang out with her and tell her I love her very much. Cuz I do I really do but I just wanna do my thing when I get off from working 12 hours. Man I even called my buddy one day after work and was more energetic on the phone than I am with her dang. Now I feel really bad. Thanks alot!! lol j/k its not your fault its mine I was just bein funny but you reminded me of it dangit whoever you are!
2007-07-16 22:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by biking for life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh-oh.. we have the same situation... and another uh-oh again cause you already told us that you wouldnt want to hear that he is cheating on you.. but to tell you honestly my dear, that's the most possible answer to your questions... but you love him so much that you are blind by love and that you refuse to accept what we are saying... why don't you confront him and ask him what's going on? if he dumps you, then it's fine... anyways, it's his lost, not yours... you could find someone who could love you more, but he wouldn't find someone who could love him the way you do... Am i right? so open your eyes, and be open for suggestions that people around you might give, because believe me or not, those suggestions will help you alot.
2007-07-16 22:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by YannaLICIOUS Cullen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"ystday i rubbed his thing alot..." are you KIDDING me? if he's getting tired of the relationship, and blaming it on work, then i think you need to leave him alone for a few days and then tell him that he needs to either perk up, or you are moving on.
2007-07-16 22:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being too easy. Continue with your studies until he misses you, then he will come after you asking you what you like, instead of you servicing him.
2007-07-16 22:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly hope your right, but how do you know he is not cheating?
2007-07-16 22:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋