So there's this boi he was my first kiss and my first love. i was crazy n love with him. he was my 1st and last thought everyday. I gave him the world and... my heart. He promised he'd love me 4ever and that he wud never hurt me. yet he was very possesive and jeolous. he'd get mad if i even looked at another boi the same way i looked at him.but then he broke my heart by cheating on me with this girl, me and her became friends we both left him but then a month la8er he came back to me begging 4 forgiveness and telling me he didnt want to b without me( I took him back)then 5 months la8er he did the same thing, me and this girl r now bestfriends they still go out and i still cant get him out of my head- i still love him, y?
2007-07-16 14:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by Merci 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went thru the a similar experience with my ex/first love, but years later i realised we did share special moments and had major chemistry, but it's been a waste of time trying to be together when it didn't work out evry single time. We tried to be friends, but sex got into the way, and jealousy about being with other ppl...there's like a couple of strings still attached if u know what i mean...
I think he really likes you, but he is uncertain about choosing only you.
EDIT:My experience made me realise that guys are very insecure, and often wants somebody on the rebound.I'm sure you're worth more than physical figure to satisfy his manly pride. yeah i know it takes forever to forget a first love, but don't deepen the wounds by staying around to be hurt again. He wants to have his pie and eat his cake too,and once a cheater always a cheater..
2007-07-16 14:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has hurt you; a lot...I am really sorry (ino u dont want to hear this)but this time, you need to break up. He has hurt you and has no right to do that with this other girl. If he is cheating on you, then it should be over as soon as possible! If you broke up with him cuz of cheating on u then got back with him, then he cheated on u again? THATS JUST PLAIN WRONG! This guy will just keep breaking your heart. I dont want to make you upset, i want to help you. Ive had this before and it ended horribly. so end it now so it doesnt keep going on. Talk to him and make it clear that it is not working out and it is over; forever...
all my love,
sashiâ¥
2007-07-16 21:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy,it's over.He's a loser anyway:he cheated on you right?Open yourself to the people around you and find someone new!You can't do that if your head's down and you're moping all the time.Welcome to the world; you just had your first heartbreak.It will get better!
2007-07-16 21:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by NicNic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becos that is i believed called as love, where for some reason u kind of being blinded and lost all ur sense of judgement and let ur heart dictate u and ur action no matter how much ur brain is telling u how wrong it is...but there is a potion for ths kind of disease and its called time..yes it sounds stereotype but time will and does heal u eventually..good luck ok
2007-07-16 21:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love him, because every single word that came out of his mouth meant a whole lot to you i expect. and your history and relationship proabbly grew tremdously until he cheated on you. its not weird you still have feelings . you know your first love will always be in your heart. so i understand. im suprides you became best firneds with the girls haha way to go. but yeah whatever hapens best wishes : ) - Emily
2007-07-16 21:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos he means da world 2 u but twice is enough so plz move on and he will noe he had no right doin that 2 u and u will find sum 1 better than him
2007-07-16 21:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Angel. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not easy getting over your first love. it takes a minute to love someone, but a lifetime to foeget them. regardless of what they do to you and how bad they hurt you, you can't let em out your mind. he'll always be in your heart. that's why you love him gurl. he did what other boys couldn't do and he got your heart, so your love for him is true. he may not be with you phyicallt, but he'll always be there emotionally.
2007-07-16 21:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him because you have been with him for so long and you enjoy his company. Although he has cheated, you still enjoy his company and his personality, but he isn't faithful. You deserve a man who is faithful and that will stay with you.
2007-07-16 21:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth your emotions. If he has cheated on you twice, he isn't worth it. You need to find someone else that will love you as much as you love them.
2007-07-16 21:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tennessee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think that jealousy is cute and means he loves you, but it's what he feels when he doesn't have things under his control. Live your own life, not his.
2007-07-16 21:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋