OK i have had this boyfrien for about 8 months. we have been goin on and off now.. i really love him..but the problem is that he has hurt me soooo many times b4 and he doesnt understand that after he hurt me..when he says he loves me i dont believe him. well now i dont belive anything he says but at times he can be sooo sweet and loving..but now.. idont kno wat to do! should i stay with him or leave him! H3lP!
2007-07-16 13:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by Kiana A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you really love him..let him know..that because of the past it's hard for you to believe him..it's not that you dont want to but hard for you to move on to believing him.
COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
i emphasize this beacuse i have learned that if i dont say anything i/we will live our lives with assumptions.and you know what they say about that.
i've been with my husaband for 2 years, we have only been married for 8months.and i still don't believe him at times.but i love him enough to ensure that our communication is what will make us.and have a good life.
good luck..stay with him unless he cheats on you then dump him..it's not worth the head ache.
2007-07-16 13:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by # 1 wifey!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say because the trust has been broken so many times, it is now irrepairable. You should leave him, there are plenty of guys out there who will know when they are onto a good thing and will treat you properly.
2007-07-16 20:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either dump his worthless @$$ - or string him along for a while to get all the things that you enjoy about him...
It really depends on your style - you DO deserve better, but if you're down with making him pay for a little bit first... ;););)
2007-07-16 20:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hurt you many times before.
Leave him;; unless you wanna have an abusing relationship.
2007-07-16 20:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like the man you'd want to spend the rest of your life with.....
...just a thought.
2007-07-16 20:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt treat you right, you should defenetely leave him. amean who ould wan to put up with that s**** that treats you like a h***
2007-07-16 20:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Alexia M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while you havent been seriously hurt
2007-07-16 20:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by orlando d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.
i'm sure you can find someone better than that.
2007-07-16 20:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, if you cant trust your bf, then he's not a bf. i wouldnt like him/her
2007-07-16 20:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋