i love my boyfriend alot and would do about anything for him.
but sumtimes im not sure if he feels the same way back i mean like he could say ''i love you'' but how can i know he truely means it?
2007-07-16 12:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by hannah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in a relationship with a guy I am very in love with. There are easy ways to tell if he truly loves you. For example, he will say I love you first. When you I love you to him, He will say it back without a "too" added on. There are minor details that just stand out. He may be confused right now too. Many guys have a problem with getting in touch with their emotions. He may love you very much and he just doesn't show it the way you expect. Have a talk with him. A relationship is a lot of work and communication is KEY.
Good luck!
2007-07-16 12:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning it, go with your gut.
A man who loves and respects you will treat you like a queen. He'll do whatever it takes to make sure you feel beautiful, loved and secure.
If he's not doing that, you need to talk openly and honestly about it. Let him know what you expect from the relationship.
If you've got a question, ask yourself, "Would my grandpa approve of the way he's treating me?" You KNOW your grandpa wants the absolute best for you, no questions asked. Use that as your measure.
2007-07-16 20:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by HH in AK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no formula for knowing how somebody feels about you.And even when you are in love, especially when you have doubts, as you apparently do,it makes life a little bit tricky. Nonetheless, if you have no concrete grounds for not believing in your man's love for you, then believe that he does and go about enjoying what you have going.Remember the old saying about actions speaking louder than words and let that guide you also.Good luck.
2007-07-16 19:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he says he loves you but does he? well he has plenty of time to look into his heart and see if still finds you there in a special place just for you. It is nice that he says he loves you and misses you but what you really need to pay attention to more than what he says is what does he do to show you that he loves. You need to let him know how you feel about him and that is more important than how he feels about you. Real love is unconditional.. you give love but don't expect to receive it the same way in return. It is possible and of course given that if he feels the same about you he will return that love. The main thing is you need to xpress your love to him for him with him. What you feel is the most important part of being in love or loving someone, not necessarily how the other person feels about you. As long as he respects you and trusts you and cares about you, for you, it tells enough of how that person loves you. Also one more thing. just like we have some people who can paint better than others or those who can run faster than others, cook better than others, well you name it you understand my point right? Well, some people can love more than others. The point is that if they love you as much as they can, then that is their 100% love for you. You may think you love someone more than the other person loves you but that is because you just can love more than that other person. The bottom line is the other person loves you as much as he or she can possibly love you. One other thing,,,is does he turst you and care about you and respects you and is faithful to you and shares with you good times and bad times and is there for you when you are feeling down,, etc.. that should be enough to indicate to you that he is in love with you. Honest to God real love is painful, love is tough, love is the most wonderful experience, Love is God's greatest gift to each of us. Unfortunately, I think you know and I know that most people these days take it for granted and are too busy jumping form one relationship to another that we really don't give love a chance for it to grow from within us to share it with anyone,, the way we were meant to do. So have patience with him and yourself. I also suggest that it is more important for your heart and spirit if you love and allow yourself to be loved than to hear someone tell you that he loves you. Afterall we can not force anyone to love us but if we love them and show them how to love then they will be near you no matter the distance between two hearts.
2007-07-16 19:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to trust ur bf on evrything if u dont then wat kind of relationship is that?
2007-07-16 19:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by gumgirl1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋