I like this girl at my school but shes one of the biggest preps in the school and all of her friends see me as a creepy gothic dude. but I'm only who iam and i know shes not like her friends but her life seems really good and shes really nice. i like her but she has so many guys better then me that she likes that are jocks. and to top it off im hated by many at my school just beacause of how i look and I dont think she would date a guy like me. So my question is do I have a a chance and if not what can i do so that i might
2007-07-16 12:07:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude as the skater at my school i go through the same thing as you are now... i went out with one of the prep, emo, rocker... you know changes image every week
2007-07-18 11:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by beans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I don't claim to know what "a creepy Gothic dude"looks like or the way he acts, you seem to have pretty much pigeon -holed yourself. If you define your self in a negative fashion, subconsciously, that is whom you are asking the world to see; and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.So the first thing you need to do is change this concept of you and make him a more positive guy.Next, figure out why you are so hated by many (if indeed you are).Hate is a very strong word to use just because you are not an Adonis as not many men are.Third, talk to this girl as you would any other girl to find out how she feels about things in general and you in particular.Finally, love yourself more. Although that term is now trite, it is still very valid and applicable to you .I wish you all the best in this new endeavor.
2007-07-16 19:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she would be more into jocks than a Gothic . i don't think your her type . try and talk to her . if shes interested in you then she keep talking get to know her become friends then one day ask her out . she just might say yes . or she want . that doesn't mean you should stop talking to her though. or maybe shes tired of jocks and she just might say yes . bottom try and become friends first . if you can accomplish that then you have a chance.
2007-07-16 19:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by LIL Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chances would improve, if you give some thought to re-packaging yourself. I understand you are who you are, but a change is called for. Start by changing your attitude, and then get some clothing that she would be happy to be with the guy wearing them. Get a "with it" hair style, and start acting like the more popular kids. When she sees the changed you, then you will stand a chance. By then others will notice you as well, and you might find some female pursuing you.
2007-07-16 19:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. You have nothing to lose and if she doesn't like you then that's her loss not yours. You don't want to look back in your life in 20 years from now tell yourself " if only I had told her how I felt be may be things would have been different ". Anyways, just because others see you as a "creep " it doesn't mean that you are, as long as you know you're not, then F$%^$ what others say about you. Good luck ...later.
2007-07-16 19:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by M. E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's nice I'm sure she'll understand. Just make nice gestures towards her ithout being too forward. Sounds like to me your schoolmates are a little on the inmature side for judging people by the way they dress. Take the attitude of, "who cares" when it comes to them.
2007-07-16 19:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young kids are so funny, why do you constantly act like there is only 1 girl out there for you. Ask her out, if she says no then remember, women out number men! Find another girl dude!
2007-07-16 19:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Conflict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER CHANGE YOURSELF for a girl!!!! She should like you for who you are... if she doesn't then she isn't the right one... You do have a chance with her... just start off slow if you don't really know or talk to her, get to know her... then once you beocme friends, ask her out. Girls are more likely to go out w/ ppl they know
Also, I know ppl at my school lyk you two and it has worked, so go for it
2007-07-16 19:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by jaxx_gi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think you have a chance with her if you're not rude, arrogant, or immature. Unless she likes that, but if you wanna try to get her to out with you, just be a good listener and ask her how she's been. Be casual, not desperate.
2007-07-16 19:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Angora K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but i don't think you have a chance. Young girls like to be liked...by the popular people. I would love to say that things would work out like they do in the movies but reality is that it doesn't sound like you have that much in common. Ask yourself why you like her..Do you like her because she's pretty??
2007-07-16 19:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by numnums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋