2007-07-16 11:50:31 · 24 answers · asked by zenikim1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a pool, the YMCA, church ..... idk anywhere !!!!
2007-07-24 09:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's the million dollar question. I recently moved to Florida and don't know anyone here since I travel during the week and home on weekends. I'm in the same boat as you except I can't find any decent women. I go to bars to just hang out but it isn't really the best place to meet GOOD girls. Lets face it, easy girls are in every bar in America. I want quality, not quantity. Maybe you should try eharmony or something? I have a couple friends who've met great people on it. More and more working professionals are doing that. I used to think that online dating was for the ugly and boring but I'm thinking of giving it a shot. You never know :) -J
2007-07-24 11:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By going to the places you like to go. There are men just about everywhere you go, many of them "are" decent. Unfortunately, most of those are already married or attached. However, there are men, just as there are women, who are still single and looking for a decent guy/girl...so don't give up, just keep your eyes open and be available.
One caveat: if you want to find a "decent" man, then don't go where indecent men go or hangout. You won't find them in bars, stripjoints, etc. If you're a "decent" girl, then look for men where you normally go. If you don't go out enough, start now...not too many will randomly knock on your door.
2007-07-24 01:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great men are everywhere and crappy men are everywhere. My first thought when I read your question was church. But the some of the biggest creeps in the world go to church.
My advice is just keep a look out for someone who appears nice, wherever you go. Don't be afraid to make eye contact or smile at a stranger, even if he's not all that attractive. You'll be surprised what's out there!
2007-07-24 07:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by decent?
How are you defining that?
I would say, generally, you can match the type of guy you want with the place he is likely to be found. If you want to meet a God-fearing Christian man, go to church. If you want to meet a muscleman, go to a gym. If you want to meet a biker, go to a biker bar!
Men are easy to find in the places they are likely to go. The question is, what type of man are you looking for?
I'll give you a little help beyond this.....go to a men's suit shop! Very novel, hey?
2007-07-16 11:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be or could not be. There are good and bad men everywhere and sadly alot of the bad ones go to church to prey, but not the kind of PRAYING they need to be doing. Some hang out there just to find vunerable women. So you really have to listen to your heart and not try to hard. It is hard and lonely being a single mom, I am one too, but the thing I have learned the most is that you have to spend time with yourself and learn to love yourself before you can really love someone else. Your time will come. Just be patient and spend as much time loving your children as you can. They will always be there when a man may not be.
2016-05-19 21:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decent doesn't require a church. GOOD guys are everywhere and it is the interests you want to share with them that should lead you to the places where they will be.
the park walking the dog,
Anywhere doing volunteer work. (not community service. whole different crowd!!)
the record store PAYING for music instead of ripping it off
(sorry just ranting there) you get the idea
2007-07-24 03:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only one way, thru good friend, or a friend of a friend.
Nightclub..> its mostly sexual
Restaurant..> he will take u for dinner again and again until he gets bored or get laid
Gym..>he just don want to gym aln, and u look good to make him look good too...
Train..>wow, u guyz must have been moving too slow
Bus..>might as well go talk to a cute at the traffic lights
Plane..>he will call u 2morrow if hes good, and maybe a date or 2.
Supermarket..>responsible but needs a reason to buy condon as he hasn't been laid in ages
and the list goes on.................
Through friends, or a friend of a friend u sure are bound to meet a decent man,..
2007-07-16 12:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend on match.com and trust me, I met a ton of freaks and losers along the way...however, I thoroughly enjoyed the whole dating experience because it educated me on men and actually taught me to read red flag behavior, but also I learned alot about myself in the process in regards to what I want in a man and in a relationship. Other places to meet guys, your local gym, do some charity work; there are great people to meet there...whatever you do though, if you do meet someone on line, have them checked out to make sure they are being honest with you on who and what they really are. Good luck.
2007-07-16 11:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thru your mates or family.
You trust your mates with everything else and who else knows you better? so it makes sense that they may have a single like-minded friend who they could introduce you to, if not then perhaps there partners have a mate that you might hit it of with.
I met my current partner thru a friend of my Mum's
2007-07-24 11:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at work, in a choire, in courses, usually official places
2007-07-16 11:54:03 · answer #11 · answered by larissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋