Sex is great for me and my boyfriend and i get there where can take it anymore, but I don't *** and i never had.Right when it's suppose to happen it just doesnt come out for some reason. Do some ppl just can't do it?
2007-07-16 09:46:22 · 17 answers · asked by Bens Mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some people actualy find it much easier to have an orgasm and *** over the age of 35 its a proven fact, im sure theres stuff on it on the cosmopolitan website, you should check that out ", xx
2007-07-16 09:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some younger women don't have orgasm. Just wait when you get a little older you will learn to relax a little more and sex will get better. The problem is not being able to lose control of yourself it is psychological and you will get there in time. You should try masterbating fairly often also that will help develope your muscles that get you to the orgasm. Also kegel exercises are supposed to help that as well. As far as right now just fake it you will really hurt his feelings and make him think he is not good enough. It sounds bad but fake it for his sake.
PS kegeling is stopping in the middle of peeing several times it helps strengthen the muscles for orgasm.
2007-07-16 09:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Big Deall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...free your mind and your body and your spirit when you are arriving at that very special intensely qualified muscle contracting moment darling.
I know you can do it for yourself darling....now just let some highly qualified wonderfully patient lover assist you in letting this occur......like....maybe me hun? LOL!!!!
Every woman is capable of experiencing a wave crashing buddingly wet torrential orgasm hun. It takes a great partner of course for some women astonishingly. I believe I'm capable of qualifying.....are you?
2007-07-16 09:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that happens to girls some times but when you worry about it it seems to make it worse just get him to do fore play or oral till you do get there and then have sex....and then maybe you can or just talk to him about it and do some things different a good sex relationship takes lots of talking and expermenting so be open and hones about your needs and try to help you get off....sex is so good so keep trying.
2007-07-16 09:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usaully it's a mind issue. Try to not think about anything but the moment. And just let yourself go.
2007-07-16 09:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your partner is not taking enough time with you. Sometimes touches in the right area with pressure there helps also.
2007-07-16 09:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by sparkmaker_52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're thinking about it too much, putting too much stress on it.
Try not to worry, say if i do great, if not oh well nothing new and really start to feel that way. You stress yourself so much about it you can't do it :D
relax and good luck
2007-07-16 09:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women can only orgasm from oral or digital stimulation, vibrators work wonders also, relax and have fun
how about you massage yourself down there while you are getting close to orgasming with him
2007-07-16 09:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by tencar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude are you talking about *** cause some girls can not do that till there in there 20s its normal
2007-07-16 09:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by bic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then I think sex is not great for you, your boyfriend needs to step up.
2007-07-16 09:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋