what do u reckon is a suitable time to wait before putting the sex cards on the table?
2007-07-16 09:33:39 · 57 answers · asked by bound by expectations 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3rd date of course
2007-07-16 09:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
PUT OUT??? how charming---no wonder she hasn't PUT OUT yet. A relationship has to be strong and committed---respectful and mature---Just the phrase PUTTING OUT shows a lack of everything. The sex act is more than an act--it is an emotional expression of love and caring between 2 adults. Are you even informed of what sex can bring?? A baby--disease---18 years of caring for what you bring into the world. It isn't just something you do for fun---that is disrespectful--you are treating her as a conquest--a prize...no wonder she will probably say NO. Put your cards on the table???? What cards??? Sex should be a natural desire that comes at the proper time--not just when the cards are dealt out. Come on--get with it---have a real relationship---have fun and see if you two can have a strong long term relationship that is committed and mature--then maybe it will lead to more. Do the right thing. Good luck
2007-07-16 09:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's all you're looking for could you really even call that a relationship? Geeze, what is it these days with males wanting nothing but sex? If that's all you're looking for, start thinking with the right head. If it's not all you're looking for, then sorry for the comment, but if we would all wait until we were married to do that then Maury would be out of a show.
2007-07-16 09:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Present boyfriend I knew him for 8 months and the one before that I waited a year.. So unless it's a serious relationship the sex cards shouldn't be played at all!!!!
2007-07-16 09:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by miatasilverrose2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. My most recent girlfriend.... three weeks. not bad eh? most girls aren't that open though. If that is all you are looking for, than you don't deserve it anyway. But if you have stayed with her for a long time, at least three months, then it is ok to start thinking about it. Ask her how she feels at the right time, and you will probably get good results.
2007-07-16 09:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur just horny and wanting some sex don't waste time just get it out right at first but if you looking for a relationship with someone i would say at least have 4 or 5 dates and see if things are going ok before you just jump in...like i said it just depends on what your looking for. and i don't call it put out...i call it having sex or having the joy of fulfillment
2007-07-16 09:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first off.......you need to grow up if you EXPECT a girl to "put out" after a certain amount of time. This is the new millenium.....come on out from under the ROCK you're under!! That said, when BOTH of you are comfortable enough with each other (and NO means NO)....then it will happen.....there are NO specific guidelines as to when.
2007-07-16 09:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are married. If you are hanging around with a girl, just waiting for her to "put out" as you so eloquently put it, then she is not the girl for you. She deserves better. While most guys enjoy meaningless sex when they are teenagers, the more they have of it, the more boring it becomes. Start looking for someone who will actually mean something to you!
2007-07-16 09:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's up to her,be careful with that she may think that's all you want out of it. It's all in the approach.For a female you have to tap into her emotionally, because sex comes from the heart with them. So don't play games or be a player. You will regret it
2007-07-16 09:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by bulldogdave45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll never know until ou test the waters....i myself wait for the guy to make the first move..if I want to I let hime continue if I dont I say not right now..it wont make the relationship awkard just dont try everynight..if she says not wait about two weeks or do something really nice and try again the next week LOl
2007-07-16 09:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by babygrrlviv05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl.
I would say the longest is marriage.. yeah, some women still will not have sex until married.
If she is a virgin, or young then it may be a while and the way you're acting i would say let the poor girl go.
Some women it's the first date if they like you.
If she saw this question I doubt you would ever get into her pants.
2007-07-16 09:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋