I have a boyfriend but my neighbor and i have been liking each other for a long time. We were always JUST FRIENDS even though we both wanted to be more. Last night we slipped up and ended up having sex for LITERALLY ten minutes, no kidding, and it wasnt very good especially not when i compare it to sex with my boyfriend but he kept telling me that it was the best he'd ever had and it was "to be continued". Afterward i felt guilty for cheating and i dont want to do it anymore. But this guy is my friend and i dont want to hurt his feelings so how do i tell him i want to go back to being just friends.
2007-07-16 09:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by blackninjagal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that the sex was a mistake and you want to be faithful to your boyfriend. You probably should have gotten the fling out of your system BEFORE you and your bf got together though!
2007-07-16 09:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by ..... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess u made a mistake by sleeping with him in the first place and this could affect ur relationship and since he's been difficult i guess ur boyfriend has to know about this cos it could turn out to be some thing bad. talk to him; tell u feel guity cheating on ur boyfriend and if he refuses to accept this try to stay away from him for a long time untill he's calm about the whole thing.
2007-07-16 09:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kiddo C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well unfortunately you already crossed the line of just being friends. and if you dont want to hurt his feelings just tell him you guilty about what happen and your b/f doesn't deserve to be cheated on. if he doesn't understand that-then he prollay was never a real friend in the first place
2007-07-16 09:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should've decided the "just friends" part before you slipped up. I think you have bigger problems than your friendship with a neighbour. Are you planning to tell your boyfriend you cheated?
You made you bed, now you'll have to face the consequences!
2007-07-16 09:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You tell him you made a mistake and that you do not wish to contuine to have a physical relationship with him. That you are not emotionally ready to be with him.
I suggest you also take some time away from the BF as well you are not being fair to him.
2007-07-16 09:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by scott o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that BEFORE you had sex with him. Now you're just going to have to keep it up or tell your friend that you don't want anything to do with him any more because he will definitely not understand you! Next time don't be such a slutty girl! You made your bed, now lie in it!!!
2007-07-16 09:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him... it was a mistake and it is not going to happen again.. you have a bf and dont what to cheat..... it would have been different if he had really been good and lasted 10 hours instead of 10 minutes... you probly didnt even have an orgasm.. sorry about that..
2007-07-16 09:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur screwed. u cheated and now u have to deal w/ it. Trying to "just be friends" again will be hard because typically it will happen again. U shouldn't come into contact w/ this guy 4 a while.
2007-07-16 09:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Strider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him. He can either choose to accept it or move on with out you as a friend. Don't beat around the bush, be more direct.
2007-07-16 09:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Listen, that was fun n all, but I don't wanna do it again. I like you as a friend... and I love my boyfriend."
...but to be honest, you gotta ask yourself why you "slipped up." No one 'accidentally' has sex...
2007-07-16 09:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by aspicco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋