Right, so was at work yesterday and theres a guy that i've been flirting with for a while. We sort of had a moment and had a kiss . After that things were really nice and sweet. He said he would txt me later this week. Now im really impatient as Im trying to get over my ex bf and I want some sort of contact with him. Do you think hes actually interested and just doing what he said which was txt me "later" in the week, or he's forgotten about me already?? should i txt him or is that just desperate? thanks!! :) xxx
2007-07-16 09:20:19 · 11 answers · asked by Smiley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mantastis thats mean!!
im not using him for sure. ive known him for a year and a bit and we've flirted and got along every day we work together.
my ex has been my ex for 7months now.
i dont want to use him as a rebound guy bt maybe he is, i dunno, bt hes not gonna be a rebound guy where i just sleep with him and then get rid of him!!!i do actually like him!! :)
2007-07-16 09:39:52 · update #1
Don't worry, he will text you. He just wants to keep you waiting and thinking about him. Obviously, its working. Hahaha. Really, Don't sweat it. He will come after, just don't dive at his feet before that. He will text you, I am sure of it (being a guy)
2007-07-16 09:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I understand this situation because i'm in one thats very similar with a girl that i've been talking to for a little while now...i would say go ahead and text him but make sure that you have a reason to. Don't just text him to talk but instead invite him to a party or something else that he might have a lot of fun doing....Good Luck!
2007-07-16 17:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait, just ring him and get the answer, if things were sweet for him, he'll be around in no time.
If you are just gettin over your ex, just watch that rebound reaction, give it time. Do you really like the new guy or are you just lonely? I know the feeling only too well
2007-07-16 16:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rabid Dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just like you very impatient but yea go ahead and give him a little text saying like yeah how are you doing and stuff like that.
2007-07-16 16:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by I EAT M&M'S#18 YUMMY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not desperate. Just anxious. Wait. If he said he'll text, he'll text. If he does not, then ask him why, or he should tell you. If he says nothing or his reason makes no sense, you know he is so not the one. Good Luck.
2007-07-16 16:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Camille 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it 3 days and text him asking what you asked her.I really hope you don't get hurt.Leave your options open and if someone else asks you out or shows interest go for it.
2007-07-16 16:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Wise Owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too impatient to get over the old bf, you should not be seeing a new bf... you ain't ready...
2007-07-16 16:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see. Thogh I dont know why he would wait so long to text you. But if you like him then just wait a little bit.
2007-07-16 16:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you don't try to get away with blaming HIM for not calling just because YOU are . . . ."really impatient as you are trying to get over my ex bf and I want some sort of contact with him".
It's a BAD idea to use a man for the purpose of "trying to get over your ex".
Tell you waht . . after you text him because you are so impatient . . and he sleeps with you JUST BECAUSE he wants to get over HIS ex as well. . . .
MAKE SURE YOU DON'T COME BACK HERE CRYING WONDERING WHY GUYS "TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP", WHEN YOU CLEARLY HAD IT COMING.
Cheers.
;)
2007-07-16 16:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he likes you he will remember to text you, trust me
2007-07-16 16:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by celtic34pr1de 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋