This girl on youtube.com email'd me saying "u kno wat i have to say about that i don't care if you love him hes mine n i don't give a **** wat u gotta say" and "and u kno wat he told me ur his ex and he can't stand u" which made me really upset and she also said "actually no for one he is mines and yeah u can jus back off b/c im not planing on leaving him ever so back off and leave him alone"
Im really upset about tis, im not sure if i should stay with him, i don't love him one bit at the moment, he said he was only joking with her, i know he's not telling the thruth though..
PLZ HEP ME!
2007-07-16 09:19:48 · 32 answers · asked by Lacadema (Role-player) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JEY, I NEVER SAID THST U SAID IT, THAT GIRL DID..
RAWR
2007-07-16 09:46:02 · update #1
You're seriously listening to what someone said to you on YouTube.com... Come on use your head on this one. Who cares what some random chick on YouTube.com says to you.
If he did say to her that you were her ex though, that is sketchy. Lying about something as stupid as that is weird and you should think about that fact that he told ANYONE that you were his ex. Maybe he doesn't see the relationship lasting much longer. Maybe you should think about finding a new guy.
* By the way... You're situation is so emo.
2007-07-16 09:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"The games people play".....this scenerio reminds me of children playing in the school yard - girls arguig and fighting over boys and boys getting the biggest kick out of it. You are a young lady (13 I believe) and you probably should be directing your life toward something else more positive.
Just looking at your site makes me think that you are bright, intelligent and have a lot of things going for you in your life. Let this looser go. Even though this girl is the one who made the comment - I believe that she could not have said it without having some kind of push behind the comment from him..
Don't waste time being upset - just leave it alone. Find other things in your life that are far more important than this dude and this "fatal attraction" girlfriend.
2007-07-17 06:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Hes not worth it. I know you may like him but, If he is telling other girls he dosent have a girlfriend then he dosent care much about you. Hes a liar because I really cant see the other girl getting so upset if it was a joke. There are other fish in the sea and if hes acting like this now then there will be much more of this. Get out now before you get hurt anymore. You have to know that guys are never satisfied with what they have. And it dosent matter what you look like. look at Brad Pitt and Jen A. He left her for Angelina. See they are never happy with one person. Even stars go threw this . I am not saying all guys just the ones like your boyfriend. Good Luck and get yourself a real man.
2007-07-16 09:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by beans03 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep dump the low life now,don't waste yourself on being 2nd best your worth more than that.
He is playing you,and as soon as he has a replacement you'll be his ex for real.
There is rules in a relationship and a line you should'nt cross, and he has already crossed it.
Certain things in a relationship you just don't make a joke of, and he explains his behaviour as just joking.
The only joke is himself,a piece of low life garbage not worthy of cleaning your shoes.
Walk away now before your feelings really get hurt,look after yourself as he certainly is'nt going to.
2007-07-16 12:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can actually say that you don't love him at this moment then your love must not be too deep with him as you think it is and ya i would definitely tell you to dump him a guy like that will continue to play games even if its just for his ego it still is not right nor excusable. Go get your self a real man because a real man does not play immature games for fun.
2007-07-16 09:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by TabbyKat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know he's not telling the truth and as you say, 'i don't love him one bit at the moment,', then i would dump him, you say you know he is lying. Without trust your relationship will crumble and if you stay with him you will have no trust. You seem to be answering what you're asking in your description (by saying you dont love him/know he's lying), its like deep down you know you shouldnt be with him.
Im sure you could do a lot better, and find a guy that treats you well...
2007-07-16 09:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by xx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well u know what to do then! ure bf is obviously using u. bfs arent meant to "joke around" about u being an ex or saying they cant stand u! he shouldnt even be chatting to a 19yr old on the net like that!!
however... maybe u should ask him first. if there really is nothing then he shouldnt mind u reading his mail right? good luck!!!
o yeah, ALSO he shouldnt have any contact with her after her saying all the crap to u! so if he really does care he will stop all contact immediatly!
2007-07-16 09:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you know he's not telling the truth then you have two choices either dump him and try to salvage any dignity you have left
or shut up and stop whining about it...let him continue to treat you like crap. The decisions you make in high school affect your future life choices. Learn to break away from scum like him while you are young or be prepared for a life full of heartache.
2007-07-16 09:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should do wots best 4 you its hard if you dont love him get rid if you stay with him tell him not to talk to her again if he dose its over i think everyone should have a second chance only if you want to work it will if it was me and he didnt do anything with someone else i would give it a go i hope every thing gos well for you
2007-07-16 10:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by txx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know you really like him then stick with him n tell him to tell that girl the real truth. if not tell the girl n him they can have each other. dont get upset over a guy that lies n sez ur ex's n he cant stand u. if he really loves u he wouldnt even b talking to a girl. i'd forget him.
2007-07-16 09:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋