my boyfriend loves me. but how do i keep him happy? he is very quiet and doesnt express his feeling much
2007-07-16 08:31:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him a letter telling him how much you love him. Ask him to write you back, since he is shy he might be more inclined to write his feelings down then to express them verbally. Good Luck!
2007-07-16 08:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by **Sparkles** 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what he thinks about some things...not real personal stuff. Ask the question so it cannot be answered in yes or no. Don't drill him. Just do it once or twice each time you are together. Maybe this will help him. But you have to understand, guys are not going to be into sharing feelings just for the sake of sharing feelings the same way women do.
BTW, if you are saying he does not talk about his love for you and how wonderful you are, then just slow down. It will come out. And if it does not, and that is what you need, move on
2007-07-16 08:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a question of getting to know him better. Not that im saying you dont know him well, but im a quite guy, and i open up to people if they show more of an interest in what im doing.
try and find more common interests to share together and get used to expressing views on the interests. Im guessing that talking openly about feelings should follow on from that. the more you talk together, the more you will both want to talk.
2007-07-16 08:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by relequestual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the worst thing you could do is try and have a sit down and talk about feelings, never never never do that cuz guys cant just explain how they feel on cue... really the best thing to do is go out to places(lots of diff. places) cuz alot of tymes the surroundings can trigger certain feelings and he can be able to express himself better, but dont ask to many questions cuz then you might just frustrate him
2007-07-16 08:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make talk and find out what he is into. Take him places he likes. Ask him if he okay, how he's feeling. Talk him into telling you how he feels. It is very nice that you are looking out for your boyfriend. Cheers and good luck.
2007-07-16 08:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loves you then being around him will make him happy. But i would encourage you to try to get him to open up about his feelings cause communication is one of the keys to a good relationship.
2007-07-16 08:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Josh W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should sit and talk to him. tell him that u want him to express his feelings more. ask him what u should do to keep him happy...and tell him that he has to sit and listen to u talk until he talks....my boyfriend never used to talk but one day i sat down with him and told him how i felt and now he talks to me about everything. just talk to him. good luck!!
2007-07-16 08:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless it seems like an unhappy silence, I'd say that you're okay with him : ) some guys just have to be with the girl they love.
2007-07-16 08:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mary M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we "fall in love", we are usually talking about "romantic" love which is a far cry from reality. In reality it takes time to really love someone and with that love comes trust. Also, and this may sound strange, it is very important that we "like" the person that we fall in love with. The initial romance may fade away, but what should remain is real love, trust and yes, like. If you don't like the person that you are with, than walk away. But if you do and know that your love and trust is strong, then take it to the next step. Introduce a new "romance" into your relationship and by that I mean actively become romantic with your partner; one of you has to take the first step and start new habits. When we are talking about a relationship, it just follows that at some point in the relationship it takes work to make it work. If that person really does mean that much to us, and it is worth it, we will take the time and work on the the relationship. No relationship is perfect and a "happily ever after" depends on compromise, reality and the type of attitude that you bring into it which will make it possible. If you are a negative person, it will never happen - but if you are a positive thinker and a positive doer? Then yes, I believe in happy endings. You reap what you sow.
2016-04-01 07:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight how he is feeling. try to get him to come out of his shell more to become more outgoing and less quiet
2007-07-16 08:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋