I can only explain it like this : I feel totally lazy about making the effort. I also don't want to feel anymore embarrassment when I can not finish. I used to joke years ago that I would shoot myself if I could not always want sex.!!!
2007-07-16 08:05:52 · 3 answers · asked by Brendan D 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
You might want to begin by having your doctor check your testosterone level. It will affect your desire for sex and can be affected by age. You should not be embarrassed to discuss this issue frankly with your doctor.
It is also possible that your inability to "finish" might be the key here. You may have to retrain yourself to think about sex differently. Try to not focus on the "finish". Focus instead on intimacy, mutual physical pleasure with or without a "finish". If the finish happens fine, but you can enjoy sex without it, too. Focus on the journey, not the destination.
Good luck.
2007-07-16 08:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As we get older we do lose some of our sexual function because our hormones are diminishing. There is no reason to be embarassed about it, make it a time to be more intimate in other ways , taking more time when making love and different ways of pleasuring your mate.It is not the end of the world.
2007-07-16 08:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by papermango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be more specific, are you trying the same thing all the time?? have you ever considered foreplay?? Try something different. Try this
Kama Sutra and Tantra Tao
look that up and you will find interesting results:)
2007-07-16 08:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by supaflyredhead1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋