why am I still in love with my ex?

Question

why am I in love with the wrong guy when he doesn't even belong to me and says that he loves and he's with another girl wich she's pregnet of him. But I just can't get him out my head everywhere I go he's there. I have these feelings when I see him I feel to be with him but I can't, but at the same time I feel like don't be with him. And I've dated guys but I don't feel happy im alwalys thinking about him. HELP!!!!

Answer 1

Well first off your dealing with what happens when you love your self so little going into a relationship, it makes it hard to go back. Now your at a point were you have to pick up were you left off, I have no idea how much time you invested with this guy are even more importantly how much of your future goals. Whatever the reason for you still loving him it still going to come down to the fact that you see your life as still being good with him it, that if he could just change everything would be fine. Until you realize it doesn't matter your never going to let go, and the only why you get to the point were it doesn't matter is if you can't except one of two things, ether you were two good for him or you need to grow so your a better person for him. I'd say you most likely were the better person, let go, you don't move on, you just let go of the hope, the posibility, and grip cold reality, isn't a bad thing, he (the better person, the better individual for you) is still out there in it waiting on you, good luck.