my best friend's brother and i have always had a "thing" for eachother and latley he's been acting different. he always wants to do "stuff" with me and like i don't know what to do
hes sort of pressuring me to do stuff but hes not being over controlling. i havent done anything with him yet, but ive liked him since i was in elementary school and now am in highschool. he has a girlfriend, and shes really nice, never done anything mean to me..but he keeps telling me its not a big deal if me and him hookup, even though it would be for her and is for me. so i have no idea what to do
half of me wants to and the other half doesnt.
ive never really gone farther than making out with a guy and its a really big step for me. but he doesn't see it the same way. hes "experienced" and im not...so i have no idea what to do
my best friend doesnt really mind if we do end up doing something, shes come to terms with the fact that her brother and i will always sorta like eachother
help please!
2007-07-16 07:35:12 · 10 answers · asked by lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did a terrific job telling us. Why not use those same words on him.
Explain to him that if he wants you, then he needs to stop seeing his girlfriend and that you don't want to be the cause of them breaking up.
2007-07-16 07:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so from the sounds of "hook up" it sounds as if you are talking about some kind of sex with your best friend's brother. Lets review; he has a girlfriend, he always wants to do "stuff" with you and he is almost over controlling. Well my advice to you is lay off for a while he has a girlfriend and you don't sound comfortable with all his demands. (Over controlling)
You may have a thing for him and that is fine but remember do you really want to have the girlfriend in your face yelling and trying to beat you up because you are messing with her boyfriend?
2007-07-16 07:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound blunt and rude but i don't think you should get involved with this guy in anyway. First of all you don't want to get physical with someone if they don't care about you, and if he has a girlfriend hes obviously an asshole for not being true to her. Second, you deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you and won't pressure you into something youre not ready for. Its too easy to get hurt in a situation like this and youre still young and should be having fun! plus. your friendship with your girlfriend might be jeopardized and no guy is ever worth that. good luck sweetie!
2007-07-16 07:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so if he already has a girlfriend that is nice, that means hes a jerk and secondly hes probably just using you, i bet you could find someone better who likes only you and wont pressure you to do stuff, ya the crush might always be there, but your probably guna get hurt if you go any further with him.
2007-07-16 07:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kat A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should cuz hes got a girl and how would u feel if someone did that to u. u would be ready to wope some *** right ok. and u dont wanna be the second girl.hes probly just wants to get with u not to be in a relashionship.
. and think bout it ig your not ready to do it dont make sure your giving it to the right person k . and even if yall do go out he probly would do the same thing he did to his girlfriend to u so think bout it k
2007-07-16 07:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should, i mean think about his gf? What if that was you? Would you think is was "not a big deal" if he hooked up with someone else? He just want to use you. He's not looking to be you bf or anything so screw him. DON'T DO IT!
2007-07-16 07:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Alayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm.......if hes pressuring you to do things you're not comfortable with then he doesnt sound like he really likes you. it kinda sounds like he just wants to get in your pants.
if he does this (cheats) to his other gf then he'll do it to you. when you say hes "experienced", it sounds kinda like he can just find some other girl to hookup with if you wont. and if you do hookup, it prolly wont really mean anything to him.
wait. and find a guy who really cares about you, and wont pressure you.
2007-07-16 07:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend find a new guy. and if he's experienced and you aren't then he should understand to back off a little. HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! wait at least until they break up.
2007-07-16 07:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by deixsaso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, so he is off limits. Period. End of subject.
2007-07-16 07:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by aitkenpatty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go have sex, get pregnant, have the baby, and mess up your live. Or else, be a smart girl and tell him "No."
2007-07-16 07:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋