It went from minor flirting..Now I'm having fantasies about him and I want to jump on him...how can I let him know
2007-07-16 06:28:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 23 years old
2007-07-16 06:29:49 · update #1
I'm not looking for a relationship, this is just physical.
2007-07-16 06:35:35 · update #2
I don't think it's THAT weird. Some women are just naturally attracted to older men because they are more stable, more mature, and can offer more financial stability. I'm sure if you told him you'd like to go out on a date, he'd think he WON THE LOTTERY! I'm sure all his older friends would be so jealous that he was dating a young, pretty girl. Just ask him out and see how it goes from there.
2007-07-16 06:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 24 and my husband is 41. Sometimes the attraction is just right.
I dont know how many years there were between Lauren Bacall and Humphrey Bogart but more years than that I'm pretty sure.
If you are in to him then go for it. Just guard yourself and make sure he is in to you...keep up the flirting and maybe make it more obvious.
Make sure he wants what you want.. If you want a relationship make sure he wants one and not just a fling b4 you jump his bones.
Good luck!
2007-07-16 06:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds hot. If it's just for the sex, I say go for it because older men know exactly what to do in that area. Don't count of having a lasting relationship though, especially if he has children. And always use a glove. Good luck.
2007-07-16 06:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by sdgirljen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
I'm not saying I believe in all this stuff but...psychics believe that reincarnation is real and you could have been lovers in a past life no matter what age (people can choose to be reincarnated whenever they want and he could have started earlier?)
you, i guess, could be attracted to his "soul" and souls don't really have an age so in conclusion, there is nothing wrong with it...
wow, strange answer I just gave there, huh? hahhaha
2007-07-16 06:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, Sauna. At 52 I was going out with a couple of 24 year old women. They had fantasies too . . .
2007-07-16 08:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sick. I think a 49 year old can still be in prime condition.
In ten years he'll be 59 and retired.
2007-07-16 06:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have an old man fetish, I think it's normal. Maybe he acts and feels young. I'm 36 and sometimes feel like I'm 16. This may sound gross but I fantasize about my 60 year old co worker.
2007-07-16 06:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Shawn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you're under 25...you should probably go for someone else.
I mean...if you're into that, whatever...but it would probably be best for you if you watched out for a huge age difference.
Lust isn't a bad thing to feel. Everyone feels lust in some way or another, I wouldn't worry aboout it too much.
2007-07-16 06:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by philenacarter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not necessarily bad it just depends on the reason, whether out of actual attraction or just lust. If it is out of attration it's probably best to be honest with him, but do so in a tactful manner, cause he just might also want you.
2007-07-16 06:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have totally been there. I dont know what it means, but yea my next door neighbor has to be in his late 40s and for some oddball reason I am attracted to him and I am 24.
2007-07-16 06:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋