i want to have sex with my b/f and he tells me that its my decision and if i dont want to its fine. i think i want to and i know im ready to do it with him but im worried about my parents finding out bc they said not to. im also worried about the outcome im so stressed about this but i really want to bc i think i love him......please HELP!!!
2007-07-16 06:28:54 · 16 answers · asked by sk8lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The stress you are feeling over the outcome shows that you are not ready. Take your parents advice and don't do it.
2007-07-16 06:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are ready, go for it. But first, think about why you want to have sex. Also, make sure that you use protection every single time. If you don't have access to protection, don't have sex. Do NOT rely on stupid things like the rhythm method.
As for your parents, whether you have sex or not is ultimately your own business.
2007-07-16 06:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by kinokukushka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body and emational side will know when you are truly ready. Your parents are always gonna tell you not to thats just cause they are paprents! Make sure you have taken the right precations ( birthcontroll) and know that you are ready to handle the things that come with sex. make sure that your relationship is ready for this it can be a big step!
Good luck :)
2007-07-16 06:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is lot of thinking going on here and not much feeling. Go with the drive when you feel it. Having sex is getting out of your head and into your body. Make sure that you are attracted to him. Having sex is a mutual choice because responsibility goes both ways.
2007-07-16 06:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you are under 18, I'd say wait since your hormones are messing with your heads.
If over 18, it is up to you. Like everyone else here has said, "use protection". I doubt you are ready to be a mother.
2007-07-16 06:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by findinglifeodd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you always do what mom and dad tell you? I doubt it.
Listen, do what feels natural for you. If you are that stressed, it may not be the right time for you.
When you do get around to it, be sensable, take appropriate precautions. You can get what you need at the drug store, they don't even hide them behind the counter anymore.
2007-07-16 06:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by dpilipis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew your age. Although, with what you wrote you sound unsure about the whole thing so I suppose your age doesn't matter too much really. There is no rush, wait until you are sure...not just thinking you are sure.
2007-07-16 06:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say not to because when you think you are ready most of the times you are really not... its just your hormones talking. are you prepared for the emotional attachment that comes with it? it is much much more than just a physical act.
the fact that you keep saying "i think" proves that you are not ready. you are just trying to convince yourself that you are. but you're not. sorry.
2007-07-16 06:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by NAQ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO THIS!!!!!
I was married to a woman I had sex with, I LOVED THE SEX
we broke up and divorsed.
I married a woman who I fell in love with for all the right reasons,,,, we NEVER had sex b4 marriage, and I Love her, I love her, until we die..
don't give it away
2007-07-16 06:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Pat B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way they find out unless ur doing it while ur parents are around. Dont do it if you THINK you want to, do it because you know u want it and you really want it.
2007-07-16 06:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋