ok there is this guy who has done numerous things to me. we both attend the same highschool and are both incomong juniors. i am pretty new at school, like a year. Neways, he has thrown paper airplanes at me, poked me in the back then pretended it wasn't him but when his friend did it he defended me, called me a name that my friends call me, buts into my conversations on occasion, makes fun of my idea of getting a moped, said hi to me at a dance then jokingly tried dancing all sexual on me, sat right in front of me when we didn't have assigned seats for class, held the door open for me all politely then ran away at the last minute, called me a honey, and told my brother that he was going to trip me, and screamed across the room that his friend liked me. they were fighting after this. as u can c, alot of crazy stuff happened with this kid. From all this stuff, my friends came to the conclusion that he liked me. FROM THIS, DOES IT SOUND LIKE HE LIEKS ME? neways, i cant figure it out!
2007-07-16 06:08:23 · 17 answers · asked by coolio121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are frinedly with each other... THIS IS WHER IT GETS CONFUSING!! i recently got a facebook and requested him as a friend and it seems that he rejected me!!! which is really weird cuz i have millions of really random people on my friend list.... id have to hate someone to reject them!! neways, my brother is having him over to our pool one day soon in the summer....WAT SHOULD I DO??? Y did he reject me??? i am so lost!! is there nethign i could do to make him regret it?? lol
2007-07-16 06:10:42 · update #1
Hmm it sounds to me like this guy hasn't really grown out of his immaturity. Remember back in grade 2 when the guy that liked you would always tease you? Same idea. He likes you. But do you really want to be going out with a guy that immature? I would wait until he grows out of his footie pajamas.
2007-07-16 06:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what you are experiencing is called adolesence. He is highly immature for his age and it acting out all kinds of emotions. I think he likes you but he is not capable of handling his feelings and expressing them in an appropriate way. This is because adolescents fear rejection more than ANYTHING! For example, here you, all worried about whether he likes you. Who gives a rat patootie. You have a very long life ahead of you. You will likely just have to put up with immature guys for another year or two.
2007-07-16 13:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he obviously likes you- he just seems pretty immature. Bet he's a virgin... All guys at that age are trying to figure out how to get their game on. Believe me, it's trial and error!! If you dig him- tell him. At least if he does too you'll know- and if he doesnt, he'll most likely leave you alone because he'll feel weird. Be direct. Not playing games with people who like to play games is normally the best policy. Good luck!! ;)
2007-07-16 13:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by phrenitus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as though he needs to grow up.He's behaving like an immature little boy.
I wouldn''t waste my time thinking about him if I were you.Not unless he grows up real fast.
For being a junior,I think he's bahaving like he belongs in grade 1 or 2.
Find someone who is more mature and who behaves like a young adult.
2007-07-16 13:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, but doesn't know how to approach it in a mature way.
Are you dating someone when he 'rejected' your friends list? Did you recently reject him or talk him down about something.
Basically - he's immature about things, but give him time and just be his friend. Who knows... there could be a prince inside of that frog.
2007-07-16 13:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Rif Tahoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he likes you, but is probably afraid of what his friends or other people might say if you two got together. I would probably flirt with another guy to make him jelous and hope he relizeses that he actually likes you.
2007-07-16 13:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, this idiot totally likes you and is afraid to say so. Either that or he's insane, sometimes you can never figure out the irrational things that others do. And stop driving yourself crazy.
2007-07-16 13:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by cRazY8s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is TOTALLY hot for you. He just doesn't have the courage to come out and say it, so he does all these things to get your attention. Take it from a former teenage boy, he wants you. Start messing with him a little, or the next time he starts acting all goofy, just shut him up with a kiss - that'll calm him down.
2007-07-16 13:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Looks like hes really immature and he clearly cant make up his mind about you.
Sometimes hes all friendly and childish with you and sometimes hes attracted to you. Its obvious hes not sure what he wants and maybe not grown-up enough to understand your feelings.
2007-07-16 13:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by PD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys don't know how to show feelings an look 'cool' to their freinds at the same time. If you like him, talk to him, if you don't tell him. This will help you as you mature as well.
2007-07-16 13:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Pat B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋