She said she only likes me as a friend. I hate when a girl tells u dat. Its so demeaning. She likes this other rich italian boy who is like waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy outta her league. How do i win her back? she used to like me lots, but dat wus in like 3rd grade. lol.
2007-07-16 06:05:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what you do. Go to her house, at least once a day every day, and take her cookies or a stuffed bear or flowers or a love letter, something romantic like that. Call her (and text and IM and email) every single day "just to talk". Find out where she's going to be (like at the mall or whatever) and be there too. Make friends with all of her friends so you get invoted to the same parties and stuff. Always make sure she can see you. Sing her love songs. Serenade her at night. Be outside her house when she wakes up in the morning. Get her lots of presents. Find out where her parents work, and introduce yourself to them. Try to insert yourself into her life every chance you get. She will really appreciate all the attention and gifts, and will eventually start to love you.
2007-07-16 06:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear the "I only like you as a friend, thing" all the time. I think you should've asked her straight up in person and not via e-mail. Nothing tells a girl that you are insecure or don't care as much as sending her digital text, compared with telling here how you feel directly. It does get depressing when you have 15 different girl's numbers on you cell-phone, but they are all just friends.
2007-07-16 06:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not in individual, perhaps over the telephone. Myspace is kinda cheesy, no offense. ladies do not likely like that a lot. yet definitley ask her out. Be direct, do not beat around the bush. i think of it is so amazing while adult adult males purely call you up and purely come out and ask you out- without distractions or small communicate or speaking appropriate to the climate first. it somewhat is gorgeous- individually i think of which would be a thank you to pass. notwithstanding- i don't understand how old you're. in case you have been in 8th grade or before, myspace would be much less unacceptable. better of success! :)
2016-09-30 03:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah liking someone in 3rd grade is nothing compared to older...but let it go if she wants to try to win someone who is out of her league then let her take that chance and possibly end up being rejected as she did you...you have to understand that people have different interest and if she only sees you as a friend embrace that because she is still wanting you in her life and you should be happy either way out especially for her...since you should want her to be happy with whatever she chooses to do
2007-07-16 06:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by ms neisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her better and don't push it. We don't like to be rushed. Wait for some time for her to not feel so strongly about this guy. Just hang out with her and lay low on the flirtation radar. When the timing is right, go for it! Good luck! <33
2007-07-16 06:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, You don't win her back. She is not some stuffed animal on the shelf at the carnival. Man up and just be her friend. What happens, happens. Deal with the fact that she said no.
2007-07-16 06:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your pushing your way to a girl? if this is so,youll never get one, it takes much time,some people it takes years, to find a good person. rich guys? well if shes that type why would want her? youll be broke in time... yup you seem hard headed, If U smart find another if not youll get in more trouble,italians which im sicilian dont mess around with family they build.. hell to pay LOL leave her alone! she said NO what part of NO dont you get! YUP ITS YOUR DOOM!
2007-07-16 06:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't interested right now so let it go...at least she knows you are, so if her feelings change she'll let you know.
Nobody is out of anyone's league...watch out, your jealousy is showing.
Rejection is no fun, but it's a part of dating life...just feel good that you did give it a shot and so now you know where things stand. Bravo you for taking a chance!
2007-07-16 06:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is not demeaning. do you know what demeaning is? its not letting the other person know they are not interested in them romantically. she told you the truth, do you rather she lie and lead you on? just ask another girl out, there is someone for you out there. this time in person, email is so impersonal.
2007-07-16 06:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll first of all, you cant ask someone out over email.
it is of no meaning to the other person.
its saying you are too scared to ask in person.
even if its not true.
secondly, if you want to win her back....you cant do it all over the internet.
you have to some how see her. talk.
as a girl, i would hate it if someone tries to ask me out online.
i would also hate it if someone tried to win me back that way too.
.....as it all has happened.
i dont like it so i doubt she will.
2007-07-16 06:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by raptoroffence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋