My bf and i met online 3 months ago. We had couple of chat online and then we talk over the phone for hrs everyday.At first he was nice and he say he like me.It was after 3 months that we decided to meet. after seeing each other everything went upside down. He started to act so weird its like he not the same person i talk to three months ago.He started to list the thing he don`t like about me and make me feel like iam worthless. I can`t even say anything to him even if i do he will turn the table around and make me feel that its all my fault. When i askhim what he want out of this relationship? His answer will be either i don`t know or don`t push it.Somebody please tell me what should i do?
2007-07-16 05:24:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like there is another side to the story. What are the things specifically that he says he doesn't like about you? And stick to what he says not what you might think he means.
The reason I ask is this sounds very much like a situation I've had a couple of times where the woman I was dating insisted that everything I said had some hidden meaning. The situation you describe sounds almost exactly like the situation from their point of view.
But the things I was listing that I didn't like was that she had enormous trust issues and wouldn't believe that when I said something it had no dark hidden meaning.
2007-07-16 05:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him enough to try and work it out... then try to work it out. But if youre coming here for advice on what to do about this sitaution, than I think you already know what you want, you just want to hear it from us. which is, LEAVE HIM GIRL he's an ***. listing off flaws that you may or may not have is not something that should be said 3 months into a relationship.
2007-07-16 05:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by amoonz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe its time to leave him. If he is so unhappy with you then stop wasting your time and leave him. You will never have full and total happiness in this relationship if he is always so mean towards you. Find someone that appreciates you and someone that loves telling you how much they love you. It's apparent to me that he may not have liked your appearance after seeing you. Maybe your not his type and he definitely seems to not be your type anymore. Move on and find someone that is more on your level and someone that you can truly connect with both physically and mentally.
2007-07-16 05:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by dencur02 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're bf isn't appreciating you
did you ask him why he's like this?
if his behaviours are getting bad and you just can't take them anymore, then do yourself a favour and leave.
You deserve much better then someone who makes you feel worthless.
my suggestion is to leave
because one day he'll make you depressed
you can't have something like that scar your life
Whatever you do, you'll do the right thing.
Good luck
2007-07-16 05:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Miss.Murder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you stressing? Sounds like he met you in person and didn't like the real deal. Keep stepping and toss the relationship out the window.
2007-07-16 05:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump him. im a guy and i know they will do anything to get the girl. once they have them they dont try anymore. if he really liked you he would treat you with respect and make a list of what he loves about to you... not what he doesnt like.
2007-07-16 05:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN!!! Get out now - this will only get worse! He was obviously lying to you on-line, this is who he really is and he's not nice. Why would you tolerate this? You deserve better, you can do better - DO NOT let him do this to you for one more day!
2007-07-16 05:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by woodlands127 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy a black leather outfit a riding crop, then tie him down to the bed and show him who's boss.
2007-07-16 05:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by cancerman_5 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ditch him before he ditches you. Do it fast, ok. He should not be given the privelege to make you feel worthless cause you're not, he is.
2007-07-17 00:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you with a guy who treats you badly? Are you that desperate that you'll sit there and take it? Get a spine, grow up.
2007-07-16 05:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋