I have been with the same guy now for 2 years and a few times i have suspected him cheating on me, even to the root of finding his online application to join a dating site!! Well now i now he cheating as i have read an email from her, I dont know if he just mailing and texting or wether they have met just yet!! He travels around and i feel that although he loves me a great deal it wouldnt bother him to have a F**K buddy as they say. I love him very much and cant imagine life without him but cant also imagine how i can carry on like this any longer. I dont however think the other woman has a clue I exist as he would I know say he was single to meet someone.
2007-07-16 05:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You deserve to be the ONLY woman in his life. If he is capable of cheating now he will continue to do it forever. Plus, if he feels it is nothing to cheat on you it would be nothing for him to dump you. Love shouldn't hurt. Period.
2007-07-16 05:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by ashpea2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry :(
I know how you feel something kind of
like that happened to me and i've been
with my b.f for three years She was way younger but still. He "fell asleep" and woke up to a girl givin him a back massage at his friends house && his friend was the one who told me. I mean i trusted this boy so much I didnt even think he would talk to another girl. I mean he was 16 and she was 13 or 14. So i didnt really care..but he felt "guilty" so why didnt he tell me? That
part hurt me the most. Im sorry to tell you
bout my problems im just tryna help & let you know your not the only one it has happend to. Well anyways, talk to him about
it if you havent before and tell him you
caught him. 2 years is a long time. Ask
him why didnt he ever tell you. If he really
loved you then he wouldnt have actually
cheated. You deserve better anyways babe. If a guy makes you cry..he dont deserve you. *i need to take my own advice.lol* It took me and my boyfriend a couple weeks for me to even talk to him
like a normal person. I acted like i was
tired of it. Thats what you need to do
because he'll be like man i really messed up.
thats what my bf did. It really works..just
dont let him easily get away with it because
he will do it again.
Im really sorry.
and i hope everything
works out perfectly for you :)
2007-07-16 05:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tabitha♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's "What" (not Wot) and you do what you want to do. Why you waste a fabulous emotion such as love on a lowlife cheater is a mystery to me, but that's your biz.
Personally, someone who cheats isn't worth my time and certainly not my love...there are WAY too many other options out there. I don't think you love him so much as you love the idea of the person you wish he was (and that person wouldn't cheat on you)...reality is apparently different.
2007-07-16 05:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is starting to wonder and if he thinks he can get away with it he's going to cheat.It' OK to be in love, but not a sucker for love. I'm married to women that cheating is just not in my interest but I've been where he is at when I was younger and dating, I cheated when I did not have too!
2007-07-16 05:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are sure he's cheating on u no matter how much it hurts I would ditch him...lets say he does one day change his ways...will you really be able to trust him again?? you will find somebody else..you don't need to be treated that way.
2007-07-16 05:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Erica F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk about this to him! he chooses between u and others... and if he continues leave him with no regret... choose one who will not cheat u... gd luck
2007-07-16 05:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either let it continue and you ignore it, or you dump him and get a new boyfriend. Pick one.
2007-07-16 05:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks.
Ditch him.
2007-07-16 05:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋