to all other single mothers have you ever felt like you realy wanted another child? I have a 2 year old little boy and REALY want to have another child. Though i am going to wait until i am maried and everything. I just realy want another child. Tears jump to my eyes when ever i see little tinny babies.
2007-07-16 05:21:03 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
-points up- i said i was waiting (heck i havn't had sex in over a year and a half when me and his father broke up)
2007-07-16 05:37:05 · update #1
It would be best to wait till you meet somebody that can help you financially as well as helping in the bringing up of a male role model.I know it's hard but a man may step into your life when you least expect it! Everything happens for a reason.Try to be patient
2007-07-16 05:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. My little boy is also 2 and I would like another baby also because I think he needs a little brother or sister. However, a month ago, I thought I was really pregnant, it scared me, because the reality of the situation hit. I thought about how hard it is to manage one child alone, so how could I handle two? Could I afford a second child? My mom and ex-mother-in-law watch my 2 year old while I work full time, is it really fair of me to have them watch 2 kids? Then, maybe I'll have to start paying for daycare and that's outrageously expensive! So, I would say that I understand how you feel but the reality of the situation is that it would be better to have help when you do have another child. It would also be in your children's best interest. Wait until you get married again and you'll be better for it.
2007-07-16 05:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by mami_de_alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was single with my daughter for 12 yrs and it happened all the time until she was 10 when I gave up hope of finding the right guy.
I found the right guy and we didn't want children so I of course got pregnant by surprise and he is now 2 3/4. The problem now is I want another and he doesn't. I have the feeling so strongly that I have thought of getting pregnant and saying oops! I wouldn't do that but it is tempting when my little guy is less and less a baby every day.
2007-07-16 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart. I KNOW the feeling. You see your own baby growing up so fast and you can't recapture his "baby days" any longer. It is a very common feeling with Mother's that truly LOVE being a Mother and raising babies. My advice is to LOVE other people's babys.......friends babys......maybe watch a newborn for a working Mother. Work in the Nursery at your Church. Try to be around little new life as often as possible and please honey, WAIT till you are married next time :) I am here to help you, not to hurt you. Good Luck !!!!
2007-07-16 05:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by DERLANDSON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋