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Growing up most all of us would say "Will you go out with me?" if you wanted to be boyfriend/girlfriend. But do people still say that?

After so many years, especially once i got to highschool, that phrase in my opinion just sounded dumb...

Whats your opinions? Guys what do you say when you want to establish a relationship? Girl what do you think?

...I generally try to be different, a bit romantic and sweet but not-
"Uh,... will you go out with me?"

2007-07-16 04:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by nick 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Sweeter, perhaps old-fashioned enough to be nostalgic, is "Will you be my girl?"

2007-07-16 04:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 1 0

By the time I was a senior in high school, I thought this phrase was kind of dumb. I think you get to an age where using 'will you go out with me' isn't something you say. I think it becomes a more natural process. Once you find yourself spending a lot time with somebody and you think it might be an exclusive thing, from my experience at least, you kind of just talk it out and come to a decision. Or if you're lucky, the guy comes up with some crazy romantic way to ask you, without saying 'will you go out with me?'

2007-07-16 04:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by tguktater 2 · 0 0

It's not really the words that establish a relationship...it's your actions. If you see a girl 3-4 times a week, meet her friends/family...you're in love AND exclusive.

You could have 'the talk' if you wish, but at that point it's pretty much solid that you two are exclusive based on your ACTIONS, not WORDS.

2007-07-16 04:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by MattVaill 3 · 0 0

It seems to me that once you reach a certain age (out of high school dating) you just dont even ask anymore, it just... happens... of course i remember the high school dating scene, you tell your friend to ask her out, she has her friend, maybe a note, etc...

but i noticed that after HS, the GF's i have had, you just start dating and next thing you know your together as a couple, there was no asking out, nothing like that... i think when you mature you realize it doesnt need to be asked, that they kind of assume you are a couple once you hang out enough or fo on a few dates

2007-07-16 04:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yeah - sounds like junior high to me.

If you want to be exclusive with someone at my age (almost 30) - I would say that you have a little sit down and tell the person how much you enjoy spending time with them and ask the person how they feel about being exclusive with you...

2007-07-16 04:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0 0

"Will you go out with me?" is something that has just stuck over the years. I won't knock anyone for saying it though. Some of us are not great with words, myself included.

However, once people are no longer in their teens no one really uses this phrase anymore.

2007-07-16 04:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-09-30 02:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Normally, older people will only say "will you go out with me" if they are inviting someone some place...

Even now, I dont hear many teenagers using this phrase...They are more direct now, then when I was in high school...

2007-07-16 04:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0 0

after about middle skewl... there was this phase that ppl started calling "talkin" or "dating" if someone and i are dating... the first relationship out of middle skewl me and the guy kissed and i was like, "so does this make you my boyfriend" and smiled and he thought it was kute... and another relationship, i was like "so are we going to keep playin or are we gonna make this official?" i kinda said it in a joking matter but he knew i was serious... and the relationship i'm in now my guy was just like "when you gonna be my girl" and i was like "uhhh, how bout now" lol so yah... asking somebody out is not so "formal" to me anymore... it's just both of you know when the time is to be official... just one of you have to decide to bring it up unless you just wanna "date" forever... hope i helped... *KP*

2007-07-16 04:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by KP [hotgurlkim727@yahoo.com] 2 · 0 0

Nothing wrong with that phrase. Always nice to use it once in a while.

2007-07-16 04:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by RickG 3 · 0 0

Lots of peaople still say that, but just because they are too nervous to say something different.

2007-07-16 04:16:47 · answer #11 · answered by Kyle P 2 · 0 0

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