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I thought that when u loved and cared for someone jealousy was a natural reaction and that u want them all to yourself??

He has stated he wants a casual relationship but tells me he loves me and wants me and needs me. He says very sweet words
However just dont believe him as he is ok for me to go out with other guys and says he aint jealous

2007-07-15 21:53:07 · 26 answers · asked by nortirob 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

he is having his cake and eating it....doesnt respect u at all
he cant love u because if you really love someone you want them all to yourself
walk from this and show him he has lost the best thing he could ever have in his life....
he prob wont run after you and say dont leave....but take some satisfaction in knowing your amazing and get can better than this scumbag

2007-07-15 22:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There is only one way to tell if he is really concerned about you in a relationship and that is to start socially dating other guys. The second issue in this question is why is he saying "I love you, I want you and I need you" when he does not want you all to himself? These are serious relationship words and should not be abused in the way he is abusing them. The likely answer is he just wants to get into your panties but he does not want to have a long term, intimate relationship with you because he may feel that you would expect more of him than he is willing to give you at this time. He does not want you to be his "girlfriend", just a booty call. You are justified in not believing him.

2007-07-16 05:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0 0

He's lying at some point - probably with all the 'sweet words' that he tells you, probably so that he can get what he wants from you. He's telling you that it's okay to go out with other guys so that he is giving himself a free reign to go and see other women.

Bin him off if he can't be serious about your relationship. There are too many risks today to mess about with a giggalo wannabe!

2007-07-16 04:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBee 3 · 0 0

How long have you been together?
Some people are into open relationships however I dont think its very commen, maybe he genuinly is interested in open relationships but your the one he loves? All that matters is how you feel about it. If you arent happy and dont fancy sharing your man then dont. Tell him straight and if he cant agree then hunny hes not worth it, you will only end up hurt if you never agreed to it in the first place!

2007-07-16 05:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Impossible to say really. Some people are really lucky and are so secure with themselves that they are rarely jealous or envious. Or, it could be a ruse so that he can eventually have other people. It could be anything, some guys are actually turned on by the thought of their girl with someone else. You'd probably better ask him more about this.

2007-07-16 04:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well why are you freaking out about him not caring about you when it seems like you dont even care about him..i mean like your so worried about him not loving you or whatever but your out seeing other guys..that just doesnt make sence. i think you just might want him to be jealous but hes just hurt that you are with other guys so hes kind of being a pushover and letting you like walk all over him and hes not gonna speak up and say hes jealous casuse he doesnt know how youll react. maybe he just wants you to be with him if he really said what you said he did.


ps:im not trying to be mean but iv had boyfriends that have been pushovers and then ones that speak up and you can tell if you've ever dated both kinds of people.

2007-07-16 05:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well you can love and not be jealous. But it sounds like he is wants to keep you around but not sure he wants you to be exclusive. Perhaps he wants you to see other people so you can be sure that you really want to be with him and vice verse. If he wants a casual relationship then he isn't ready for a serious one, listen to him. He is telling you he cares but doesn't want to be tied down yet.

2007-07-16 05:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0 0

Do you know what a "casual" relationship means?? It means you will have sex with him, or be around, when he wants it.!!
Tell this yoyo to back off, and find yourself a good boyfriend, one who respects you and wants to be with just you.
Jealously is a very bad thing, if it rules your life. However, if you find someone and you both want to see only each other, you will not want to see others. Good luck.

2007-07-16 04:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by fredg 3 · 1 0

Ok, i was going to say he is either really secure or has a big ego meaning he has nothing to fear because he looks better than the other guys. Since i read he is ok with you going out with other guys is def. a red flag. IF he loved you he would care. I think you need to see other guys now because you don't need a guy that doesn't care about you.

2007-07-16 05:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0 1

If you really loved and respected some one, you wouldn't want to share - and do'es he expect the same open relationship terms to extend to him? Don't hang on just for the sake of not being lonely.. move on.. before you waste years together..

2007-07-16 04:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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