just as friends and ONLY as friends - if you currently have a boyfriend that you love and adore.
My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. My ex and I broke up more than a year ago and we just started talking again two months ago or so - just on occasion, though, on-line.
Would it be terribly distasteful to go and have coffee or something one day? He's asked a few times if we could just hang out one day. I think he may still have feelings for me, but he's absolutely not the type of guy who would try anything - and he knows I'm dating someone. I don't have any feelings for him any longer, but he's a cool, intelligent guy.
2007-07-15 21:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by fast fashion 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not totally wrong. But you should really talk to your current boyfriend. It depends on the x, and what he's like. If your current boyfriend knows him, and doesn't see him as a threat, or a distraction, he may not care. But you should try and be insanely sensitive to this.
If he doesn't have x's that he is interested in talking to, he will certainly not understand why you would go there.
So just check with him, again and again. And if he's cool with you meeting up with the x, do him a favor, and call him while your there. Or text him a reminder why he is your man. He'd really appreciate that.
Good Luck.
2007-07-15 21:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Musicman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble if you do that.What would you do if you found out that your boyfriend was having coffee with his ex girlfriend. Would you be hurt,would you think something was going on.The quickest way to lose a boyfriend/girlfriend is to have coffee with an EX and not tell .
2007-07-15 21:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very inappropriate to go anywhere alone with him. Talk to your new guy and see how he feels. If he is uncomfortable ask him what level of comunication he would be comfortable with and stay at that.
Unless you are willing to give up what you have now it is not worth risking for something in the past.
2007-07-16 07:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah its so complicated, i have an ex who loves to be friends and another that like shunned me away, probably the best is to do what your emotions tell ya, maybe its cool to hang out with the ex but if he wants something with you and you dont want him but you just want your current bf, you just wont feel like hanging out with the ex
2007-07-15 21:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Diego S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am friends with some of my ex.. and my husband dont mind.. as long as you tell your present partner whats going on. and the ex knows you are dating someone too, all is cool..
2007-07-15 21:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that!
I met him... It was hard to resist him first but when i felt lyk he was moving in on me, i changed to topic or sed something abt my bf. Then he backed off...
But i agree...it was awesome to meet him again!! [N if u think u dont hav feelings for him, ur fooling urself ;) Take it easy!]
2007-07-15 21:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. many ex's are friends. do tell your boyfriend, and allay any fears he might have, though, but don't give in to him bullying you into not doing it - you're allowed to make your own decisions. make certain that your ex knows you're off the market, as well. good luck!
2007-07-15 21:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by altgrave 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeh sure
2007-07-15 21:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by OOO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋