2007-07-15 19:52:31 · 30 answers · asked by himani_arora14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How should we know? It's your life.
2007-07-15 19:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! 20 years is a huge age gap. The only concern I have with such relationships is as you are getting older. Imagine this, you get to the age he is now 43 when you are meant to be in your prime and he is 63 with less energy and less enthusiasm - what would you do? Ask yourself about children and having them or not having them and the consequences of this. If you can see yourself getting old with this guy getting even older, then that is fine. It's your life at the end of the day. Different stokes for different folks as they say.
2007-07-15 19:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years is a hauge gap, indeed and you should be concerned. He at present is at the prime of his being, including the sexual activity. But imagine the situation after 20 years when you would be 43 and he would be 63. Of course, love is blind but marriage is the real 'eye opener'. Imagine that you get married and how life would be after 15-20 years...
If you have already considered these and you two are really committed & sincere, no problems.
Take Care!
2007-07-15 22:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why asking now when u shud have done it before getting "into" the relationship. Anyways it's urs and his life so no one can tell u how life will go or be. But if u really think that he's the one for u and that the relationship will work, then u and he have to work hard to keep it goin. Oh wait. I just remember something. Go watch Estitva Ek Prem Kahani and u can get ur answer
2007-07-15 21:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 20 years is long gap. now he is 43 yrs you can enjoy
your life, after 20 years everything will change he can't
satisfy you. don't take risk to marry him. first of all ,verify
whether he got married and having children. If he is
married man unnecessarly you will get into problem, which
you cannot solve in your future.
you are sweet 23, you will get a boy friend in your age.
If you are financialy weak then also don't select a man 20 yrs
elder than you. money will not give you happiness.
before taking desion consult your parents and doctors.
best of luck.
2007-07-15 21:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Susila K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok!.
There's nothing wrong with age in life. Your age and his age is not far apart. Men still go strong at the age of 60 years (next 17 years). The next 17 years you'll be 40 years.
Normally for a lady, at the of age 40 will be a bit slow in sex. Your boyfriend is still strong when you're at the age 40. (He's only 55 years).
I have a great feelling that he will love you till end of life. Be with him.
2007-07-15 20:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by AHMAD FUAD Harun 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GREAT, an older boyfriend not only means stabler and securer finances but also a dash of practical world wisdom with a heart full of love and sensiivity.He may not send you long love letters or romantic sighs like younger lot but sure arrange for a movie ticket, book advanced tables in best of restaurants and shall impromptu surprise you by asking you out for exotic weekends.Learn to respect and reciprocate his love,GOD shall give you an intuition if you only believe in your feelings truly.
2007-07-15 20:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know one couple whose age difference is almost 30 years.I dont know why some women like much older men.....may be they are emotional or something.so get over this bull **** and try to think practically.You are just 23 and market is full of young boys for you.U dont even have to look for someone infact thet will come to you.What i meant is why to ride an old hourse while you can have have a new one!!!!!!!!
2007-07-16 20:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by BRIJESH P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Himani
Don't you worry.. Its a trend these days to have elder partner..
And moreover the chemistry of life is independent of the catalyst age. It's the feelings that matters. If you are happy with him and like him..... age shud never matter at all..
All the best for your future ... Do lemme know if I could be of any other help..???
2007-07-16 01:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by vicky4us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you if its working well. as for me, i dated a man 9 years older than me but things didn't work good. May be some part of the age gap that the things i enjoy does not appeal anymore or that he is always busy at work.
Now, i think that older man is not for me & am back dating someone close to my age. We enjoy almost the same interests as of now.
2007-07-15 20:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the moment. By the time you turn 30, you KNOW things are maybe gona change and TRUST me, he knows it too!
You never know... maybe he's like this Greek God and your kind of HAGGY for a young lady. Could be a perfect match!
(I meant nothing more than a cruel punch-line by the way!)
2007-07-15 19:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋