so this guy is majorly flirting with me who's 18 -
but i'm only 14 -
but i think i might like him too -
what should i do -
?? -
2007-07-15 17:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by JessLuvzYa O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him no because it is illegal especially if u2 start having sexual relations. just keep away from him cuz he probably only wants sex from u anyway!!
2007-07-15 17:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is, a relationship between you two would NOT work at this time - no matter how hard you try. Once you're older, 4 years shouldn't make any difference, but understand that teen dating relationships much more often than not don't go very far. As hard as it may sound, muster up your courage and confront him about it. Tell him that you're not interested in a dating relationship right now - if that's what he's implying he wants; if he really cares about you, he'll wait until you're old enough for that kind of commitment. If he won't wait, then he's not worth your time.
Also, tell a trusted adult - be it a parent, teacher, pastor, friend's parent, etc. - about your situation. Chances are, they went through something similar when they were your age.
2007-07-16 00:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun, I think you know how bad this could be. Ask yourself - what kind of 18 year old actively goes after a much younger person? What would you think about a guy in your grade who went after a 10 year old?
Often older guys see younger girls as easy targets to control and get what they want. I hate to say it so baldly but that's been my experience from watching this happen to many friends.
Consider what he would want from a relationship and what you're ready for. I'm hoping you're going to say you aren't ready for a serious and/or sexual relationship, but this is something you have to determine for yourself. Make no mistake hun, at 18 he's more than ready for sex, no matter what he tells you, and he will end up pressuring you.
My advice - go find a hottie closer to your own age :)
2007-07-16 00:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but just about no 18 year-old would want an actual relationship with a 14 year-old. He probably just wants to get in your pants. Please don't hook up with him. Go out with a guy your age. If you didn't find anything wrong with it, you wouldn't have asked your question on Yahoo! Answers...Think about it.
2007-07-16 00:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you are only 14 he is 18. your far too young to be worring about guys, enjoy be 14
2007-07-16 00:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him! Ant adult who hits on a 14 year old girl...well...lets just say he needs to ht on girls his own age. Can you say 'jail-bait'? Trust me, let him know you arent interested. And if he keeps pursuing you let an adult know!
2007-07-16 00:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him. If your parents found out he could get into some serious trouble. That could ruin the rest of his life.
2007-07-16 00:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by LaTrice B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please stop. It will not work. You are setting yourself up for hurt. Parents will not like it. Things get hairy legally and it just will not work. He is too mature for you and you have a lot of growing up physically and inteletually.
2007-07-16 00:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better tell him to wait 4 years. Ever heard the term jail bait? Well, you're it.
2007-07-16 00:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till ur 18. Hes too old for you know and he should know better...
2007-07-16 00:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋