my Bf wants to do it?!?

Question

me 13 he 16. he wants to do it. i say lets wait till marriage he says "aww that sux!" OMG!

Answer 1

Come on, you know the answer. Wait.

Answer 2

Imagine that you smarter and wiser than he is. At 13 I understand that kids want to experiment with all kinds of things .You name it sex,drugs, and everything you could think of. Honey you've made the right decision wait until you're married. The next thing you know he will ask you to do drugs. Always think before you act cause there are consequences that you'll have to pay. Tell him what sucks is him thinking of having sex at such a young age. By the way do ask him for me what's the hurry? Tell he when he gets older sex will still be around, so if he truly loves you he should be willing to wait. If on the other hand he wants to move on because you don't want to have sex he's just a player. Only want to use you for sex. Be careful out there ,there are many wolves in sheep clothing.Continue being smart and use your brains at all times.Bye know.

Answer 3

Too young. Period. If he's gonna be an idiot about it, dump him. You do not need the hassle of worrying about birth control or STD's at your age. He's at his sexual peak and thinks about sex every 5-10 SECONDS. This is FACT. They all go through it, he will NOT die if he doesn't get it.
Just remember that it doesn't even MATTER who YOU are, any girl will do for him at this point, even your best friend. He wants sex; he's just too lazy or bored to jerk off.
Be strong. Say Aww that sux with him and then do something else. Even if you gave it to him now, that's all he'd want from you until you were old enough to want it too, say 20, and by that time he'll want something "different' and you'll be left in the dust.
Forget it. He's not worth the hassle, trust me.

Answer 4

HONEY, YOU ARE 13!!! Don't even think about having sex! Think about it..? What if you got pregnant? Condoms do NOT always work. Could you raise a child? And not even that.. But having sex involves a lot of intimacy. A lot of emotion. You are asking for heart ache. You will not be with this guy the rest of your life.. I guarantee it. So don't waste such a precious thing. I say dump him for even pressuring you. There is a huge age difference of 13 and 16. You don't even realize it until you are at that age so there is no way I can persuade you.. But anyhow.. I really hope you make the right decision honey.. I'll be thinking about you. :-(

Answer 5

Okay, hmm...
I would usually say no to this one, but I got a better way for you to decide.
Beside you are being 13 and a minor, I want you to ask yourself this, "Would it be worth it?", "Does it matter to me if I lost my virginity to him instead of some one that can actually care and love me?", "He is saying I love you, but that's what other guys says when they want some, does he mean it?", "Would I regret it?"
Having sex with some one only gives you a temporary pleasure, but most girl who did it later told that they regret it because they didn't wait. Not only that, many felt guilty minutes afterward.
You only have your virginity once, and when you lose it, you can't have it anymore, and if you feel guilty afterward and then you regret it, your sex life will never be the same and it could scarred you for life.
Many of those that came to my office for my counsel told me that they would have waited until some one right came into their life.
I can't tell you how to make a decision for you, but I can suggest you that you should at least wait until you think that you are ready to give it to some one that has a meaning in your life, not just a boyfriend from middle school.

Answer 6

DON'T DO IT just because its what he wants. We all want things we don't get, that's just part of life. He can deal. and if he doesn't like it you're too good for him anyway. I'm 20 and still saving myself till marriage. Yeah its hard but I know def worth it in the long run. Also its a great way of weeding out the guys who aren't serious about a relationship. A guy who doesn't stay around just for sex is a keeper in my book!!
good luck!! and please don't give in, same as me I know I'll regret it if I do so i've made the decision. That one line that I WILL NOT cross!! well as i said good luck!!♥ keep respecting yourself and let me know if u need to talk!!

Answer 7

If you are 13 and in a relationship with a 16 year old, then I doubt that you will remain a virgin until your wedding night, unless you get married at 14. So go ahead and do it, spread your legs and bring a child into this world. It'll be so cute when you can have a double party; when she graduates 8th grade, and when you finally go back and get your G.E.D.

Answer 8

He does not respect you, if he did he would respect your decision to wait until marriage. I admire you for waiting, it is not easy, so good job! He is much older than you so guys his age just want sex, they are hoeny of course....Do NOT fall for temptation and his pressure to have sex. DO wait until you are married, you will not regret it. Your relationship with this guy is not guaranteed, the only think that is guaranteed right now is your virginity...do not lose it over this guy, maybe once you do have sex with him he may leave you....so DON'T! Dump him immediately ok? He is obviosuly not respecting your choice and saying 'that sucks' is cruel. You're too young for sex! Tell him, 'bye, bye!'

Answer 9

If you do not want to do it then don't and stand by that, I respect the fact that you are using your head. You all can kiss and and so on, maybe do some other things. But no intercourse / sex. This will be the true test to see if he really loves you or is just trying to have sex with you. I hope he respects your wishes and shows you he loves you. The main thing is stick to what you said.

Answer 10

I think you should wait. If he really wants to be with you then he can wait. But, if he can't wait then he just wants one thing. been there done that. guys leave you after a few times of sex. But if he thinks he will marry you then he could wait and that would make the honey moon so much more meaningful. good luck!

Answer 11

dont if you one day want to have children he will ruin that for you dont you are verry right to wait for mirage or verry bad things could happen and i mean it! if he wants to do that he doesnt even care about you think about it wouldnt your right boyfriend care about your descision and not say aww no he would respect you and if he doesnt back off of it i suggest you report to the athorities a 13year old and a 16 year old is not a good combination!!