We are on the Junior Fair Board together... He's a farm boy and im a city girl. But I do farm animals in 4-H. He's 15 and I'm 14. Im pretty fun and usually perky. He's really sweet. Anywho... We were at a dance and I was really hyper and fun, and me and him had fun (thats when we started to go out). I was really fun and nice. Then the next couple of days I was really tired, b/c it was the end of the fair. I wasnt as nice (I wasnt a *****, I was just kinda sarcastic) and I dunno I think im just being really paranoid and nervous b/c I like him alot.
2007-07-15 16:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry, just be yourself.
And dont think "am i good enough" think about things like "i like him so much" instead
2007-07-15 16:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop worrying about not being good enough only if you understand that:
We all are different, we all got different DNA, it take time for some thing to become habit. There isn't any magic formula which can change any personality with immediate effect.
You are what you are, aren't you satisfy by yourself? If you like your new bf surely he does same.
Instead of getting worried, relax, think good thing you have to do for him. Think some thing interesting when you see him next time. And finally be positive.
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2007-07-16 12:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ari 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right, follow up with him. Comment that you sure got stressed out by the end of the fair, and you're relieved to be rested and back to yourself again. Ask him how he did with everything (probably more up his alley, er, row to hoe, all that farmin' and stuff). Then, let it go, don't worry, don't bring it up, make efforts to remain gracious under pressure.
Best wishes.
2007-07-15 23:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dating you, then obviously he sees something in you that he likes! Don't worry about whether you are good enough for him. If he is still dating you, then obviously you are good enough. Be confident in who you are! Guys seem to be attracted to that. Good luck!
2007-07-15 23:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry so much, if he doesn't like you for you, even through all your different moods, then he is not the right one for you. Be yourself.
2007-07-15 23:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Helene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be yourself when you are with him, and if he doesn't like you for who you are, then he is not right for you.
No worries.
2007-07-15 23:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋