I just started dating this chic yesterday should i be saying "bye, I love you" in a text or is it too early?!?! thanks!
2007-07-15 16:15:21 · 21 answers · asked by Fender-Strat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only say it, if you reallly mean it. in my opinion, it shouldn't be a line you use so easily.
2007-07-15 16:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Catch_the_Sun 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you and how you feel about her. If its strong feelings i would wait for atleast 2 or 3, times its just been you and her together. If it isnt just wait till it feels right, or you've been together long enough to say it without worry.
In a text, or message, its much earlier and more often for me, then in person, becuase in person its fully felt, and out there.
I've been dating my gf for about 6 months, and its just getting comfortable saying i love you when i leave. But i take everything really seriously.
It depends on how you are, if your just dating to date, then probably quickly. But if you mean it when you say I want to be with you, make sure you love her, and wont hurt her.
Best of luck
2007-07-15 23:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Neverlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday? Wow that's a little too early. Also make sure its coming from your heart...and when it does, say it in person.
However if you really feel in love, then go for it and tell her.
Good Luck.
2007-07-15 23:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a Fender strat get to know your chick first....explore her mind like you explore the different sounds that your fender can do. Treat her gently like the way you care for your guitar. After that when you really can appreciate your chick or your guitar for what it is worth..that is the time that you can say to it or to her "I love you" and really mean it. For what is the use of saying I love you if you dont mean it. Also....your first "I love you" must be delivered and said personally not by text......it would be more meaningful, appreciated and more romantic.
No matter what you say, girls will always be romantic....and thank God for that...cuz it makes life more interesting and unpredictable.
2007-07-15 23:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by John Galt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early. When you're really comfortable with her and feel like you can say it and mean it without saying it in a text message is when you should tell her.
2007-07-15 23:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by kdive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just started dating yesterday, i'm gonna say, Do not say it yet!!! The only exception would be if u have known her for over a year and actually do love her.
2007-07-15 23:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by V Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only tell someone you love them when you really love them, telling them too early is leading them on, but when you do really love them dont wait to long to say it or they will think otherwise and say you dont even like them nemore
2007-07-15 23:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by justin h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this chic????
anyways yes a day is too early you cant love someone that quick and it will sound unsincere when and if u ever do truely say that you love her
2007-07-15 23:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by betterthanme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm Perhaps a little too early... its unlikely you know weather you hove her or not at this stage... wait until you are really sure of your ground.
2007-07-15 23:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsue_2k03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is to early....don't say it unless u mean it!... my boyfriend and i have been together for about 4 years and i'm 19..... he told me he loved me about a month after but i couldn't say it back until about 6 months after we got together..... say it when u feel it....if you don't feel it yet then don't say it! good luck!
2007-07-15 23:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple, when you dont have to question yourself about it, thats when you know you can say I love you with meaning, otherwise your just saying it to say it, in which alot of cases, that happens.
Good luck:)
2007-07-15 23:24:31 · answer #11 · answered by jahnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋