I am trying to figure out my sexuality... I want to be in a relationship with a girl but I don't think I can live without a guy in my life too. Can I have both at the same time? Would guys be ok with me having a boyfriend and a girlfriend? And if so, where can I find said girl and guy?
2007-07-15 15:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Smash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally could probably deal with it. However, I would expect full disclosure of the relationship with the other girl. I'd ask to meet her and hang out the three of us once in a while. Not a sexual thing, but I'd want to know the competition so to speak. I would probably mention that I'd be interested in a menage a troi, but would not insist on it or make it a part of the deal for my girlfriend to have a girlfriend.
Most guys would either be completely insecure with this kind of arrangement, or would expect you to share. Hopefully you can find somone that is a bit more open minded.
Good luck in your search.
2007-07-15 15:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess once you commit to the fact that you're bisexual, things will get easier. I suppose it would be weird to date a girl who had a girlfriend. Could be kinky too. Most guys would either feel threatened or overjoyed. Me personally, I might not mind if you were both hot and I got to "watch". Sorry, I'm a guy... whaddya want?
2007-07-15 22:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by djruffin614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have to find a very rare man to make it work. Think about this, jealousy is an animal instinct. No matter how much he may act like its ok but he will eventually get jealous. unless of course you find this rare breed of man that is not jealous-ridden and also not expecting too much out of the circumstance (if you know what I mean? ; ])
2007-07-15 22:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bryce R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-07-15 22:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Terrell J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt mind
it will take some time getting used to it
but hey care to chat
2007-07-19 11:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if it were for fun only and only if i was part of a 3 some often
2007-07-15 22:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lets say you were strait.. whould your bf be ok with you having another bf?? nooo.. now haveing a GF... wow he would freak.. make up your mind.
2007-07-15 22:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by ransom love™ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he prolly wont mind as long as you let him join in the action....guys are pigs...sorry to tell you....
2007-07-15 22:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋