I am 20 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We live out in the sticks and there is really nothing to do around here. We go for walks, go to the occasional movie, party a little...but I really need to show her how much she means to me without just getting flowers or saying "I love you."
2007-07-15 15:20:16 · 26 answers · asked by horacepembleton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take her under the stars and cuddle... all night and tell her how much you love her! =) Good Luck!
2007-07-15 15:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...here are some ways....some are cheap and some cost money:
- Listen to her about what she likes or wants
- Respect her
- Show and tell her how you feel
- Write a letter, poem, or song that express your feelings
- Make a mixed CD with love or special songs
- Massages, candles, a dinner that YOU cook
- Be the gentleman by pulling out the chair, opening doors, etc
- Both of you dress up for a dinner you prepare complete with candles, music, and dancing for two....my bf in hs even sent me an invitation to the "event" where he cooked a simple spaghetti dinner with wine and roses.
- Go online and order special things that remind you of her or she mentions she likes.
- Order online M&Ms with special customized sayings
- Plan a special day/weekend in a nearby town where YOU do all the planning down to where to stay/ where to eat (not fast food)/ and what to do ( online searches can help you find something interesting and fun)
-Fix things for her if you can
- Buy cards for no reason what so ever and surprise her
The main point is to show her respect and that you care. These are just a few ideas.
2007-07-15 22:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh living in the boonies...
Try finding a great place that catches your eye that would be easy to get to. Maybe go out & make a pile of rocks into hearts with your initials. Then when you go walk with her, have her come across it.
Sounds like youre doing a great job anyhow. Just listen to her, be you, & be there for her. The best wya to show love is by doing simple things that take her breath away...
2007-07-15 22:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Raven Punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is better than saying I love you and showing her you love her by YOUR emotions, nothing materialistic is better than showing affection. Look at her in the eyes and say "I love you (Insert her name here)." You don't have to buy her anything, or even go out all the time. Write her a poem or letter, she will tear up. Those are so sweet. Just hold her hand and stare at her eyes and make her a card with your thoughts written down and you can even read it to her....be creative. Good luck!
2007-07-15 22:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by NO♥NAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean everything that you say to her, tell her you love her every single day, give her gifts for no reason except for loving her, a girl loves it if you write her a poem on your feelings, GO BIG if you wanna. I once had a guy paint "i love you" on a wall of a building. Think BIG like that or try to top it
Good Luck Lover boy
:D
2007-07-15 22:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
little things, subtle things. kiss her, make her up a bath when shes had a rough day, be there for her, let her lean on you when she needs you most. pick up when shes tired, little things like that show woman how much you love them, not cheating, open communication, and compromise are always a good way to a womans heart and trust. good luck
2007-07-15 22:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by oopenerms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a back massage, surprise her with a REALLY nice resturaunt, buy an outfit/clothing that she has had her eye on, send her a card for no reason...little things like this prove to a girl that u truely care for her
2007-07-15 22:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by lisa1980sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things like rub her back and run her bath water and give her a bath. Wait on her hand and foot. Clean house and treat her like a queen.
2007-07-15 22:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by suesf7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very nice of you to ask that question...how sweet! be with her most especially when she needs you. be sensitive and stick-to-one..you can be romantic in your own special way without having a lot of money to invest...just be there for her always. its good enough
2007-07-15 22:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by damn_licious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her and quit dishonoring her by living a noncommital relationship that says, "I care about you, but only if I can get out of this if it gets difficult."
Doodad
2007-07-15 22:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by doodad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋