boyfriend help!?!?

Question

i am 13, i got my 1st boyfriend last month
and i havent seen him at all, bcuz i am always busy, i feel rly bad about it 2, and im afraid he will break up with me cuz i never see him...i dont know wat it feels like when someone breaks up with you, im afraid tht he will though, i know i shouldnt feel like tht, but its like a gut feeling
wat does it feel like, i mean i know i'll be sad, but wat did u feel like, and how long did it take 4 u 2 get over tht person?

we talk everyday, and i love him alot

i just dont see him

hes a little younger than me, and we met at school, i know what im doin, i mean im not gonna do anything bad, or anything, cuz im not like tht

Answer 1

Just drop it, your too young anyways, you meet a million more guys , you got High school.

Answer 2

My dear child, I'm not your dad, but I have a 15 year old daughter, so please listen. Because I know what you are going through, and what I am about to tell you will hurt, it will be the truth.
What you are going through is the stages of growing up, becoming a mature woman. Your emotions are in the developement stage right now, and very tender. The chemical changes, your female harmones in your brain are in the stages of transforming you in to the woman you will be someday. It's like a bud of a flower, a beautiful red rose. The bud of the flower, before it opens to become that flower will go through all kinds of rain storms, wind storms and sometimes blazing hot sunny days. The tough green covering protects the, not yet developed beautiful red rose.
The protecting cover you have is your parents. It is always best to go to your mother and tell what is bothering you. And boyswill, or should go to their dad. Anyway, if you feel uncomfortable about going to your parents, I will tell you what they would have told you.
Because they have been there where you are now, the first thing is that it's ok to feel hurt, it is normal. Time will fix the tender hurt that you feel. What you are going through is what called, "puppy love". It happens to us all at about your age. The best way to heal a broken tender heart like yours is to let time do what it does best, .....heal the tender hurting emotions that you are feeling right now. You will be surprised what a little time will do. So, why don't you call your best friend, ask your mom if you could have a sleep-over or something. You could ask you mom to take you and you best friend to the mall or something.
GOD BLESS YOU , take care, have fun this summer, and always stay safe........bye

Answer 3

First break ups are difficult I'm not gonna lie. I think the best thing to do is to just focus on yourself right now. Your hobbies. Your priorities. Keep yourself busy doing fun things. It will help you get over that person quicker and it will be less painful overall. You will learn through time that not every boyfriend you'll have will be the right person for you. Hopefully, you'll be one of the lucky few who meets her perfect match right away; however, even if you do sometimes it's the wrong time to recognize that it's the right person for you. Live your life to the fullest, keep yourself busy, and your growing pains will be less painful. Good luck and have fun.

Answer 4

One thing that i learned over the years is that if u start a relationnship with an end in mind...that it will end...dont be getting too ahead of yourself...i know it is your first bf/gf relatiohship...but every relationship takes work..make an effort to keep the relationship going...if u really like this guy...if you break up...it will be painful.

Answer 5

it won't be too bad since u seem like u both rn't very close anyway.

When i broke up w/my first boyfriend we were only dating for like a month. He broke up w/me cuz we never saw eachother, but it was really more of a joint decision since neither one of us wanted to be tied down at the time. (He lives really far away and we met over the summer.) We wanted to be able to date ppl we could actually tlak 2 in person instead of just on the phone & online.

Answer 6

me it took me like 1 or 2 months but you will get over it soon if your friends help you

and stay away frome him until your tottally over him

and you do not just feel sad there are 3 steps inyour heeling

step 1. saddness- at this stage you will feel upset but keep friends close to make it go away faster

step 2. anger- at this stage you will be upset and angery in this stage remember if it was not ment to be it was not ment to be

step 3. thinking- at this stage you will think alot about the time you spent together to help mack a list of pros and cons and then throw it away!

these stages are the ones i used in my breek up so keep them just in case

Answer 7

break ups are never easy or fun. But let me tell you a little secret hint on true relationships, its communication, and compromise, tell him what your fears are, and why its been so hard for you to be with him, if he truely likes you then the two of you will be able to work out a compromise on how to make your relationship work out, and it will only be temporary you are only 13 and you should be experiencing alot of relationships they are like practice for your future permanent one. you will proably eventually break up and it wont be much fun and it will hurt like crazy, but you will get stronger from this experience and it will make each experience with a new boyfriend a new one. good luck. and be honest with him.

Answer 8

well its really not a good feeling and if you really love him it really hurt for about two to three weeks and epically if he iggs you.i just broke up with some one a few weeks ago and he iggs me and it still hurts and it want stop until you find another guy like him.maybe you should ask him to come and see you or somee what or meat som where if your not too busy but .it truly hurts and try your best to keep him and hope things work out right good luck.

Answer 9

well all i can say is a good relastionship needs time. in the begging u need time with the person to make it work. if later on u get really busy its ok cause the love u have for that person will make it work. all i can say is don't date someone if u don't have time for them.

Answer 10

All i can say is try to see him more, and if he does, there a plenty more fish in the sea, and if you guys didnt see each other much it shouldnt be as bad.