I'm kind of falling in love with someone else...I've never met this person, only chatting. She's beautiful, my girlfriend, and nice but I just don't know how to tell her that I don't love her just like, and this woman that I met online is just what I would love to marry someday. Have you been in this situation and does it work when you find someone online? She's a beautiful nurse.
2007-07-15 15:09:16 · 24 answers · asked by Guilligan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've used the cam and she's 29 and I'm 32yrs old and she lives in Boston and I live in NY so I could look for her she knows how I feel she also has a bf and she says she feels the same from me, but I just don't want to do the wrong choice
2007-07-15 15:18:32 · update #1
Ah, the modern dating age...
If you feel the need to chat online with another girl other than your girlfriend, then you're really not ready to settle down. The thing about online relationships is that you really don't know the person. They may seem great and all, but you only know what they tell you.
How would feel if you dumped your girl for someone you thought was perfect but turned out to be not what you expected? Do you go crawling back to your girl? Would you blame her if she didn't take you back?
If you like your girlfriend and she likes you back, don't go looking for somebody else online. That's asking for trouble.
2007-07-15 15:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by djruffin614 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know... that's not right. you loved your current girlfriend a lot at one time. You know NOTHING in person about this woman you have been talking to online, and your going to hurt your girlfriend more than you possibly could anyone.
Yeah, that's sure something to be proud of. You don't "fall in love" with someone you have never met, hung out with, whatever. That's immature, and just out right stupid. People are completely different in real life... and it should be pretty obvious about that. Maybe you should really STOP talking to this nurse girl online, and stay with your current girlfriend who actually loves you and who you can physically be with whenever you want, and love her like you have before.
P.S. this is why many women call men, A$$HOLES!!
2007-07-15 22:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling you are falling in love with the idea of the woman you've never met. She might be an overweight, jobless, bored woman who knows how to work a computer. She also might be what she says she is but you will never know unless you meet her... although don't be upset if she isn't all you hoped she would be because if she's not who she says she is and really you two have nothing in common, you will probably regret breaking up with your girlfriend who is a reality and not just a screen-name. Don't mess it up...
2007-07-15 22:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by sd10sgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you love the woman online better? You've never ever spent any real time with her. You have no idea if she's been honest with you, you don't know if she likes what you like because you've never seen her real reactions to things, only controlled ones in a controlled enviroment where it's easy to lie. Why are you falling for what you want a relationship to be (fantasy) instead of making what you already have (real) better?
2007-07-15 22:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell your girlfriend in a nice and gentle way that you fell out of love with her and for the sake of both of you it will be best if you guys broke up. But don't you dare tell her your leaving her for someone you fell in love with on the internet cause your just asking for a beat down or atleast a slap.
2007-07-15 22:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by leona 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i dont think u can fall in love with someone online, unless you have met with her. if u really do love her, just tell your girlfriend in a very VERY nice way, and be sentimental because girls can sometimes be sensitive. there is no point in staying in a relationship when you love someone else.... good luck!
2007-07-15 22:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by chickee23girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen a picture of this other girl?..I mean I think it is cool that some poeple meet online but these days you just don't know. But I would say life is to short and you need to take a chance and go for it... you wont know until you try.
2007-07-15 22:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by kalee_n2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cares for your current girlfriend, I mean really in love with her, then you wouldn't be looking other places, so obviously something you're not satisfied with your current girlfriend. I feel that you should date other ppl, date much as you can, because once you say "I do".... that's for life, so choose right. Your single, it's ok to look and seek the one you're really looking for in a woman, don't settled for just any body, you have to be happy in the end. God bless
2007-07-15 22:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by oliveoil 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Online will never work out trust me. Ad why are you talking to women online while you have a g/f? That's a way of cheating you know.
2007-07-15 22:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Becka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have...been there, done that...and just wen i think i will learn to love the 1 that im with, it never happens...if you dont love your girlfriend, then tell her that...not straight out or mean or anything, just tell her you want to be friends with her for now...
about that nurse, i think you should talk to her about you guys, see if she would like the idea of you and her going out, or in this case ending uyp together...and since it's chatting, ask her to meet you in a public place and you guys can talk in person instead of online...you kno??
go with wat your heart telkls you, not your mind and good luck ok??
2007-07-15 22:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by míss índєpєndєnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋