she hugged me for a while like 15 seconds. she said take care in her low gentle voice... then she squeezed me briefly...it kinda hurt.. then she turned her back on me, never giving eye contact, even as she shut the door...she was leaving for good. she was saying take care as she walks away with her back turned to me...
shes around 10 years my senior...she was sort of my supervisor....despite my name vincent, im female...uhm, no dirty ideas..but what does that mean when she didnt give me eye contact even?
as she closes the door carefully, there wasnt even a smile, but she wasnt looking back at me...
shes a very nice person, very thoughtful..shed praise me when i did a good job..i just sort of felt 'snubbed' when i wasnt looked back at...
2007-07-15 14:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She was ready to go.
2007-07-15 17:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means somethings up? You will know of her situation better then us. Perhaps she's getting fired? Perhaps she's leaving the company and didn't want to say a proper goodbye so she's trying to keep things quiet?
Anyway, you should voice your concerns to her and just directly ask her if there is anything up and if theres anything you can do to help. Perhaps get in touch and ask if she wants to meet up for a drink and then you can try and find out more then?
2007-07-15 22:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bosses tend to be very busy. They often turn and walk away in midsentence while giving directions to be followed by the employee for that work day.
I wouldn't worry. Maybe something is bothering her and she is just distracted.
2007-07-16 00:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋