Did you know that the Quran says that Allah/God counts the tears of a wife when her husband is mistreating her, and that Allah/God hears her complaints against her husband? Did you know that for every so called muslim man that oppresses his wife, violates her rights, rapes her, forces her into unwanted marriages, and only sees her as property, he will be given a bad deed and on Judgment Day any good he may have done will be transferred to him while any bad she did in response to his mistreatment will be transferred to him? In other words, the men you see abusing their wives are destined for hell because they ignore Islam, which says men may not harm women and that you are to give your wife equal to or better than what you give to yourself.
What do you think of this fact?
2007-07-15 14:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Allhu Akbar!!
Allah is the greatest protector.
Thanks for sharing this interesting fact sister.
God bless you!
2007-07-15 19:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what she's crying about. i may cry with her, laugh at her, say or do nothing and be with her or plainly ignore her, hold or comfort her, give her a chocolate bar (LOL), or fight for her.
If my wife is angry at me, i wouldn't know, i think she'll just play the song "you don't love me anymore" by weird al yankovic and follow that instructions by the book.(LOL)Check that on youtube!
Actually, my wife had her happiest time in her life with me, she claims,but we're divorced, financial difficulties and her PTSD resulting from her sex harassment experience from work. We still have friendly communication now.
2007-07-15 16:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by 36 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am not married but by watching my parents
dad feels sad when mom cries
about this fact I found it very fair to all women
2007-07-15 18:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by *~Ãya~* 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
my husband (ex) didnt used to give a damn when i used to cry he though i was acting so all i know is that allah is with you and knows what you goo throughand he is the only one that can bring you to the other side
2007-07-16 11:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We both together share our joyous and sorrows of life. The Prophetic saying: The best amoungs you is the one who is best to his wife.
2007-07-15 22:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ismail Eliat 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband cannot bear to see me cry, it breaks his heart. As I have said countless times, I am truly blessed.
2007-07-15 14:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Hubby can't stand it when I cry... so he does anything to make me stop...
My dad was the same when I was growing up :D ... n I guess he's still the same... haven't cried in front of my dad in years!
2007-07-15 15:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
i cry many times, & badr is always there for me, when i am pms'ing nothing makes me happy,& badr will go get me all kinds of pms med. trying to help.
he holds me & kisses me when i am crying, & try to find out what is wrong.
a lot of times he will cry with me, telling me every thing will be o.k. he will go get a wash cloth & wash my face for me,& get me somthing to drink, & will not leave my side tell all is o.k. with me.
he is a very sweet, tender, & loveing husband when it comes to my feelings.
2007-07-16 01:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by fatima_feb25 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
when my wife cries,my souls feels like dying inside.i cant take it!
god bless!
2007-07-15 16:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Thanks for sharing this hadith sister,
then they say that Islam doesn't give women any rights
2007-07-16 06:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Nourhan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋