ok here's the story my mom was talking about how i need to do better about myself normal teenage talk my dad also was there anyway's he cryed b/c he never gets to see his sons he has me and two other another long story anyways he got mad then he ran off and cryed b/c i was blowing him off[not paying attention to him when he speaks] and not talking to him i feel awful makeing him cry then on top of it it was at the mall were everyone saw please help me !
2007-07-15 13:27:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go and apologize. Talk to him and spend some time together.
2007-07-15 13:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetbulbs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Don't know what precipitated your Dads meltdown. Maybe things are tough at work and the bills are piling up and he looks in the mirror and sees that he isn't a young guy anymore.
Maybe he felt like his only mark of success in life is you kids. Life is tough when yor a middle aged adult. Opportunity can seem like it will never come again
, you aren't going to be remembered as someone brilliant or witty or sexy or
anything.
You are just a regular guy who hopes that at least you have a made a difference in your kids lives.
When your own kids don't even seem to like or simply respect you, it can feel pretty bad. Almost like you are an invisible person.
Give him a break, and do yourself a favor to. Your dad will not be in your life forever. Someday you may wish that you'd taken a few minutes to make your Dad feel like he matters and is valued. All that would take is asking his advise on something simple. But don't wait too long...even dads get depressed and ill and old and ...
Tell you mom what happened too. Your dad may be dangerously depressed and someone needs to be checking on him.
2007-07-20 15:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it weird to have a dad talk to his kid? Sorry to say this, but your friends are wrong and THEY are being the weird ones. As for what to do about your dad, tell him the truth: that you're sorry and that you were out of line for saying what you did. Also, tell him what you told us: you'd rather have him text you 24/7 than not at all.
2016-05-18 21:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by sherryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop upsetting your father. Apologize to him and hug him. You may not have your father for ever so take the time to show him how much you love him. Believe me when I say you will miss him when he is gone and all that will be left are regrets on how you could have been a better son. Make every moment count. -God Bless.
2007-07-21 12:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please apologize, ask him if he would like to talk about something that might be on his mind, no matter what give him a hug, tell him you love him and that you are here for him always. We wont always have our parents, and cherish that you have a dad. Let him know. Iam assuming hes been a decent Dad to you.
2007-07-23 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by rainydaze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain its your age an that he must have felt the same way with his parents when he was young let him no that you no you was in the wrong an ask for him to help u, so you don't do it again he will appreciate that as you are going to him for advice * making notice of him * an actually being interested in his opinion xxx
hope this helps
2007-07-22 08:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but no one besides you can't help you. Maybe, just maybe, consider talking to a professional counselor (psychologist), because this sounds like you have been growing in a troubled family.
2007-07-22 18:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter, about how you feel, it's easier to write about feelings, than to talk about them,(especially between fathers and sons), and finish the letter with I LOVE YOU, he will treasure this forever
2007-07-15 13:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are lucky your dad is still around mine died 7 years ago.if i were you i would do what ever it took to make it right with him.tell him your sorry and listen to him and reply.and let him know you love him.it want make you any less of a man.one day he want be there.so use the time you have.good luck.
2007-07-23 06:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well set out some time 2 spend some time with your dad and make him happy if you care so much....just a couple hours can really change things around and make him happy so try ...good luck and best wishes
2007-07-15 13:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋