lately im prefering to stay on my own, meaning i dont seem to think friends are important, dont like having them in my life anymore, i dont trust anyone and dont forgive if someone screws up, does anyone thinks this way? if im wrong then what should i do?
2007-07-15 13:22:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That happens to be best of us sometimes. Sounds like maybe you have been burned by someone or you may just not me happy with yourself right now. Eventually you will find a way to shake it off.
2007-07-15 13:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Reyna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has that kind of feeling at some point but in the end, we all need a shoulder to lean on. No matter how much we feel like we can go on alone, the creepy truth is, we all need someone. Trusting someone is a whole different story because trust is something that should be gained throughout a friendship. Same with forgiveness. That takes time as well. So don't worry too much about it, but remember that a friend is always a good thing to have.
2007-07-15 20:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here brother. I would rather stroke the one eyed snake then bunk up w someone thats going to destroy ya. On the flipside being alone isnt good for you, socially, emotionally or anything.
Try having a bit more faith in humanity as a whole, i know its hard being that a select few have done these things to you but dont generalise about the population as a whole. Also dont assume based on presumptions gained in your past.
I know its hard whiping the board and starting anew but the gains are much more then the losses.
2007-07-15 20:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people go through that during certain times of their life. You feel like the only one you can count on is you. To an extent, that's true. But we can't do everything alone.
People make mistakes, but sometimes we make a bigger deal out of that than it actually is. Sometimes we have different friends for different purposes.... a friend to talk to, a friend to go shopping with, a friend to do business with. Many of us make the mistake of putting too much faith in one person and end up disappointed. They're human, they can't do everything right..
Take this time to find happiness within yourself. Do things you like to do, go places you like to go... basically do stuff to make you feel good about yourself. Eventually, you'll be able to pick and choose who you want to associate with for the right reasons.
2007-07-15 21:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by djruffin614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get that way too. You sound depressed. You need to find a friend who will restore your trust in people. It may be hard to open up to someone, but it is worth it in the long run.
2007-07-15 20:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by orchid719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since i don't know you i'm guessing that you have been in a relationship that didn't end up the way you wanted it to, and thats why you don't trust anyone
your just going through a stage, and i went through thats stage a few years back, but don't worry, you'll come out of it when you meet somebody in the most unexpected place
2007-07-15 20:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, honey - what happened?
we all need our own time, and thats not just ok - it is really a good thing, but i dont think thats where you are going with this - i spent a few years absolutely zen, no tv, no phone nuttin' and it was a great healing experience - but i sorta knew what i was hiding from - and what i was healing from..do you -wanna talk about that part?
2007-07-15 20:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by l t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people need to be alone but don't trip. Stay in touch with Friends though cuz they will eventually lose touch.
2007-07-15 20:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by Vig90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong to think that way. If your happy being all by yourself than it shouldnt bother you.
2007-07-15 20:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Beezee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like depression.
talk to a friend, family member, or a doctor to get you back to your old self.
good luck!
2007-07-15 20:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋