Met on line and she didn't mention until later that she was a lesbian. Now before that we talked on the phone and through e-mails that all went really well so we decided to meet in person. When we actually met we couldn't keep our hands off each other. She says she likes how I "just take her", you know like be sort of aggressive. Anyway her partner is a cop and is very suspicious because I accidentally left some marks on her neck. She tells me that she can't stop thinking about me and want us to get together again soon after her partner is no longer suspicious. So even though she has been in this committed relationship(she said that she was married to her partner for almost 3 years now)with another woman, she wants(and gets) sex from me. I guess I have two questions: 1~Is she even a real lesbian? Isn't the definition of being gay to be sexually/physically attracted to the same sex? and 2~What should I do? I love this girl and want to be with her but she says she won't leave her partner
2007-07-15 13:11:15 · 24 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with being a vagetarian.
2007-07-15 13:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Step 1:Stop being in love with the lesbian. Step 2: fall in love with a straight girl or a bisexual woman(at least this way you will have a better chance with her)
2007-07-15 13:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue isn't that she is lesbian - the issue is that she is already married and won't leave her partner.
So you don't have a chance. You don't have to do anything because she has already decided for you - don't bother her, the ball is in her court now and she's decided to let the ball drop.
2007-07-15 13:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is bisexual, but she already told you she won' t leave her partner. Maybe she wants to have a kid and is using you for that purpose. You need to stay away, cause nothing good is going to out of this. If her mate is a cop, boy are you ever asking for harassment.
2007-07-15 13:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's bi-sexual. And while your situation isn't ideal, it does sound promising that she's having consensual sex with you. Maybe you should ask her what her final intentions are. If you can edge her girlfriend out, it might not be a bad relationship.
2007-07-15 13:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by billyrayhombre09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my old boss, lets just say I know everything that goes on inside and outside that building. She just needs it on the side and maybe it'll evaporate or it could come into something real.
2007-07-15 13:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Heather R♥se 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itsnot good 2 be with lesbians break up with her if her partner says that your aggressive and she probably wants to be with her
and she is maybe a real lesbian
2007-07-15 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW this is a hard one... from a woman point of view, shes probably bi-sexual, you should try to convince her that she should be with you and not her wife if u want to be with her that bad, otherwise it looks like shes using you.
2007-07-15 13:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by Beezee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. no she's bi-sexual, girls can go back and forth like that....
2. get rid of her asap, her partners a cop?!? are you hoping to take a dirt nap? she's playing games, and will never be serious, run away FAST, your dancing on razor blades with this one....
2007-07-15 13:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley Bright 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation with a gay guy..use it to your advantage that shes a lesi, lesis feel comftorable around guys..you might not get anything long term but you could get at least some action
2007-07-15 13:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she misses the stick..seems like physical attraction.thats all.or thats all im getting from it.why cant you get a single woman?
2007-07-15 13:14:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋