I confessed to a guy earlier, but he has already liked someone else. However, he said that I was the first girl to tell him so directly. As long as he still remembers me, that's all that matters.
How would you feel if you were him? Will you still remember me five years from now??
Please don't say anything bad about him because he's still really nice to me and we still talk. Thanks!
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2007-07-15 12:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he likes the other girl, but will he REMEMBERS me five yrs from now?
2007-07-15 12:46:15 · update #1
Before I met and got together with my girlfriend (which is a lasting relationship to say the least. She makes me....oh so happy!) I confessed to several girls emotion for them. They all said that they liked the direct approach, but none really shared feelings for me. A few girls have told me that they like me, and it always flattered me. I remember them all. Personally, I didn't have feeling for any of them. But I always respected them, and respect is what a good relationship starts from. You can't have romance without respect. Take respect away from romance and you have lust. Relationships with a foundation of lust result in resentment of each other, and that's...really sad. So in your case, the guy likes somebody else, but he is still nice to you. Don't push him, but I would not give up on this guy. Talk to him, not flirting, but talking. Help him when he is in trouble, give him advice, make him feel special. I mean, don't overwhelm him in efforts of trying to win his heart. Showering somebody in gifts who does not want to be showered only makes them nice to you, but without feeling for you. So you might -think- he has affection for you, but really he is just too afraid of hurting you. Just be sure you aren't going overboard, which is obvious if you are.
There is always the chance that he is telling you about this other girl in an attempt to get closer to you. It's hard for a guy to just come out and say that he likes you. Ask him about the girl and if he tells you a lot about how he feels for her, then help him out. It sounds crazy, but tell him what you would like. If you are open to him, he has no reason to not be open to you, which builds even more respect. Just don't become attached to him. don't tell yourself you will marry this guy and that you will not give up on him until then, you will break you own heart if things don't work out. That's called infatuation. And it's not good.
2007-07-15 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by miedecember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes He Will Remember You . You Are A Very Beautiful Young Girl
2007-07-15 12:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl said that she liked me then I'd be over the moon and start liking her reciprocally straight away since girls rarely say it so directly to guys. Brave on you for doing it and good luck next time since you really are pretty and the guy you confessed to probably will regret his decision after a few years.
2007-07-15 12:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real sweetheart. You don't need to express anything in words, just by your intentions and actions. For instance, you wrote "would like her to do the same so she sees that she has natural beauty and fells better about her self i also want to let her know that i dont care what she looks like shes beautiful no matter what but i dont know how to ask her to do it." You need to THINK with your mind over and over about how naturally beautiful she is, and that she's beautiful no matter what. You need imagine that you are FEELING the happiness when you put this young lady at ease, when you made he feel totally comfortable. With your true, good faith intentions, she will soon realise the deep, genuine feelings you have for her. You are a true Prince, and she will realise this.
2016-04-01 05:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Beautiful! And Your Brave! I would really respect the fact that you told me that you liked me. And you can't really help the fact that he may not like you back the same way. But you telling him may be a real turn-on to him...b/c your the first. As the guy i would be a bit torn between you and a girl that I'm chasing who may or may not like you. Really i would never forget the only/ first girl that professed her love to me! I hope the akwardness level stays down for you guys. And i hope some day he sees how stupid he was for not dating a beauty like you. I wish you the best luck!!! I i were him i would so date you!!!!!!
2007-07-15 12:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless I had girls that open with me all the time, I would probably remember you 5 yrs from now....If a girl came up to me and easily, confidently said she liked me I would be surprised and probably very turned on. Not many girls these days have that kind of confidence.
2007-07-15 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by espguitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id feel a little flattered and I probably would remember u five years from now.
2007-07-15 12:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will and thats really nice that you told him if someone told me i would feel really good it doesnt happen to often but i wouldnt forget that .... because not many women say that to men by the way those are very nice photos of you i wouldnt forget you......
2007-07-15 12:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by midget/pita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you said you liked me if it was something like you say i would def remember you i hope you two get tog one day never give up if you truly like him there is always hope on the horizon
2007-07-15 12:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he probably remembers you. Just a guess, but I say he would.
2007-07-15 12:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋